Bachelorette party issues...am i being bridezilla??

fancyface1955 Posted: Jul 06, 2009 08:38 PM

Bachelorette party issues...am i being bridezilla??

Hi Gals,

So to my knowledge i wasn't getting bach party because it's too dificult for people to travel in for it. (half my girls are out of state) and even just to do a dinner out wasn't do-able either.
No supposidly something is coooking, but it's not anything i want to do. 3 out of the 5 BM have kids so it probably can't be a late night or even an overnight thing. but i'd like to have go out and have a good time dancing at a club or something. or even AC, but no one wants to do or is able to do the things i want to do.
Is it bridezilla of me to not want to do what they are planning? I hate hurting feelings and upseting people, but does the bride usually have a say in her own Bach party?
All suggestions are welcome.
Thanks.

cavvento Posted: Jul 06, 2009 08:42 PM

Re: Bachelorette party issues...am i being bridezilla??

I would maybe talk to one or two bridesmaids who you know understand you, and suggest that you'd love to do some day things with those who have kids (i.e. spa, brunch), and that maybe then some of the singles could head to ac or a club afterwards. If you share your true dilemma (wanting to respect the bridesmaids' needs while balancing some of your own wishes), and don't say it in a bridezilla way, I'm sure your input will be respected and valued.

JamDancer Posted: Jul 06, 2009 08:46 PM

Re: Bachelorette party issues...am i being bridezilla??

hmm that's tough because you should be able to do what you want to do for it, but at the same time I feel bad because at least they are making an effort to do SOMETHING instead of nothing.... is there anyway you could hint without hurting anyone's feelings?

Corinne Ann Posted: Jul 06, 2009 08:52 PM

Re: Bachelorette party issues...am i being bridezilla??

the best bach party i went to was a 2 day event but not including hotel or anything.... we went out to dinner locally and then dancing again locally ... then we all went to a spa the next day! maybe you can do something like that!