I think my bachorlette party should be a fun night out with the girls!!!! MY bachorlette party has been already planned and my sister really wants to do this!!!!...So she told me the other plan that my best friend came up with. ( same best friend who has a problem with my TN BM..for those who read my vent on that!)
My best friend wanted to take a train in the city and go to Yankee game and then Applebees after that...***??? That is something you do just to hang out!!! And again, some of my girlfriends do not like baseball...I think she is trying to do the cheapest thing that she can do!!! My sister already told me there is no way in hell I am gonna take a train in the city..it's all gonna be Limo style!!..lol Her bf suggested the idea to her and she is so excited about it..that now I am so excited about it!!!
What do you all think about this?? What are you all doing for your Bachorlette party?? Or do you not know details?? I can't wait to see what is being planned for me!!!!!!!!
Espo22
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do what you want to do...your friend shouldn't suggest things that you wouldn't like to do bc then she is being selfish. Tell her when its her BP she can do that.
well i had mine this past weekend already but i knew what i was going to do
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Posted by Espo22
do what you want to do...your friend shouldn't suggest things that you wouldn't like to do bc then she is being selfish. Tell her when its her BP she can do that.
well i had mine this past weekend already but i knew what i was going to do
What did you end up doing??? I think going to baseball game can be done anytime...I would want my bachorlette party to be memorable!!
I would love to hear your ideas!!!
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I wanted to do something different for me, i have driven around in a limo and went club hopping a bunch of times already!, so i choose to go to AC for the night, i never been before,
so what is the one thing you want to do? share it with the BP! what would make it memerable for you?
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Posted by Espo22
do what you want to do...your friend shouldn't suggest things that you wouldn't like to do bc then she is being selfish. Tell her when its her BP she can do that.
well i had mine this past weekend already but i knew what i was going to do
What did you end up doing??? I think going to baseball game can be done anytime...I would want my bachorlette party to be memorable!!
I would love to hear your ideas!!!
i went away though, we went to vegas
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I think its a good idea but def do the limp and hit some bars up after the game!
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Its your Bach party so you should do what YOU want. Tell your sister so she can make sure to put a bug in everyone's ear about what you want to do. This should be your relaxing/fun night with no stresses
FutureMrs.T
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I am going to Vegas with 11 girls for 4 days! I planned it myself!
sweetdoublenn
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Sure I love Baseball but some of my girls don't! I want all of us to go out for a night of fun!! I want to something I never did before....Like gamble..I know I can't believe after I just wrote it..What can i say I live a very deprived life!!!..LMAO!!
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i saw if you want something new you should get something new.....it your party and you should get what you want!!!!!!
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tell your freidn you do not want to do the game and applebees thing..........
we are taking the train out to the city and having dinner at planet hollywood then going to the wax museum and then home.....i didnt want something too crazy it will be alot fo fun cause it is our kind of thing! :)
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I think my bachorlette party should be a fun night out with the girls!!!! MY bachorlette party has been already planned and my sister really wants to do this!!!!...So she told me the other plan that my best friend came up with. ( same best friend who has a problem with my TN BM..for those who read my vent on that!)
My best friend wanted to take a train in the city and go to Yankee game and then Applebees after that...***??? That is something you do just to hang out!!! And again, some of my girlfriends do not like baseball...I think she is trying to do the cheapest thing that she can do!!! My sister already told me there is no way in hell I am gonna take a train in the city..it's all gonna be Limo style!!..lol Her bf suggested the idea to her and she is so excited about it..that now I am so excited about it!!!
What do you all think about this?? What are you all doing for your Bachorlette party?? Or do you not know details?? I can't wait to see what is being planned for me!!!!!!!!
If Culture Club was still around, I wouldn't have wanted it any other way. I used to basically live there before I met FH. Now that they're gone, my BP is taking me to the Tropicana in AC for an overnight stay. No limo's. It's enough that they're even paying into such an extravagant thing (to me anyway) to begin with. We're all getting there ourselves. I cant wait!
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Limo and bar hop in cute dresses!! That's a good bachelorette!!
for my b/f and BM i planned hers.. adn we are gettign a limo and goign to dinner/ times square hunks...
then we will be in times square.. at about 1030 we will possibly bar hop arund the area...
i have pen!s do-dads and she has a cute tank top to wear and we are just beign really girly and causing a scene
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I knew all of you thought the same way I do!!! My sister told my mom about the bachorlette party this morning and my mom told me I am gonna love it!!! I can't wait!!!!!!
No new info to report on my best friend..haven't really heard from her. I just don't know why she is stirring the pot with all this drama!!!!
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I'm having the same problems..so I totally know how you feel..honestly its your bparty and i think you too should have a say about what your doing..I think you should talk to them about it...my bp is cheapo also..and I keep worrying im going to end up at some ghetto bar on li...
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I have a BM who just went to rehab and has been sobber for 90 days. I didnt want to do anything that would put her into 'Danger'. So we were gonna go into the City and go to the 80's Prom. But then my sister (MOH) found a house on fireisland for three nights and four days for the same price. We are doing that instead b/c then since its just hanging out on the beach and a house we can BBQ and be with just friends and not feel we all have to drink. She says we can drink she is ok with that but we wont and we will stll have fun being together. Do what you want. For me to change my diea was for a friends struggle with addiction not them being selfish. Your friend is thinking only of herself. Do what you want!!!
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A limo is picking me and about 10 friends up at my Mom's house and taking us out to the vineyards. We'll go to five vineyards, have lunch, and then go back to my Mom's for some dirty games and cake. Afterwards, if we're not all passed out, we'll probably go out to some local bars.
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wow, that is very thoughtful of your changing your plans for your friend. I agree that it needs to be something that you want to do, but everyone else should like it too. Baseball is not a big women's thing, IMO I would hate going. If you never gamled and dreamt of going,then why not. You can go closer and cheaper than Ac. There is the new games in Yonkers or even better is the Mohegan Sun and Foxwoods. You can take the orient point ferry to new london and they have a shuttle you can catch from there. It is very reasonably priced. They have hotels too there, but weekends are pricey. They have shows also. Talk to her and explain it. If she is your bf, she should understand. My bf and I have been friends since we were teens, almost 25 years now. She is coming up from Fla for my day. She would do exactly what I had wanted.
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Thanks ladies...tonight I told my FSIL all about it..she stood there shocked in amazement!!! Yes, she is only thinking of herself...But it's abou the bride not her! My sister has this great idea planned and she alredy has said if she doesn't like it it's too damn bad...she has shot every idea my sister had...I just can't believe she is behaving like this....
