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bella1028 Posted:

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Massachusetts...I posted Saturday morning that I was leaving for the 3 day weekend...FH and I stayed at a bed ad breakfast. We had the best time. Now I am home and sad...for those of you who do not live with FH yet, doesn't it completely su** at this point??? After spending 3 days together, just us...I am depressed...I can't wait to live together!!! The time cannot come soon enough!!!
mRm2008 Posted:

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awwwww for you
jjk1007 Posted:

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awwwwwwww...I know it's rough now but don't worry, your time is coming soon enough and then you'll have the rest of your lives together! Definitely something to look forward too right?
DavaDay Posted:

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Awww... but think of it this way, you really realize how lucky you are to be together and aren't taking each other for granted. You would only feel this way if you were CRAZY about him, and you're lucky to have that kind of love in your life.

And less than 6 months to go!!!
bella1028 Posted:

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Thanks girls...I know you are right...it will be worth the wait...but i just feel so bummed right now!!! How come 3 days at work can seem like an eternity and a 3 day weekend is over in the blink of an eye??? Thanks for your kind words!!!
alissa5517 Posted:

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Just think about how fast time is going to go while you plan the rest of your wedding and how amazing it is going to be in a short time when you are living together.
OrangeGrl Posted:

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Awe my sweet Marisa...pretty soon you will be living with Tom and then BEGGING me and Mike to come over so you don't have to deal with him anymore, kinda like I feel about Mike sometimes...OR you might be happy living with him and never call us again...hahaha Anyways...you'll be in my complex and then we can use our 'cans-on-a-string' phones and save money =) Missed you! Glad your back but more happy you guys had a good time
LoriBeth2728 Posted:

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FH and I live across the country so I understand!!! LOL One reason why we're doing a civil ceremony here before is because I won't live with him before we're married and it doesn't make sense for me to move there then move w/him a few months later.

bella1028 Posted:

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Posted by MissMaster13

Awe my sweet Marisa...pretty soon you will be living with Tom and then BEGGING me and Mike to come over so you don't have to deal with him anymore, kinda like I feel about Mike sometimes...OR you might be happy living with him and never call us again...hahaha Anyways...you'll be in my complex and then we can use our 'cans-on-a-string' phones and save money =) Missed you! Glad your back but more happy you guys had a good time



I heart you lady!!!
Snick n Nick Posted:

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Posted by bella1028

Massachusetts...I posted Saturday morning that I was leaving for the 3 day weekend...FH and I stayed at a bed ad breakfast. We had the best time. Now I am home and sad...for those of you who do not live with FH yet, doesn't it completely su** at this point??? After spending 3 days together, just us...I am depressed...I can't wait to live together!!! The time cannot come soon enough!!!



I TOTALLY hear you....back at work, going back to my apt tonight, after a long weekend with FH....stupid living an hour and a half away....CAN'T WAIT FOR JUNE!
DD628 Posted:

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oh i know what you mean.

MrsK2008 Posted:

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My FH and I don't live together either. It does suck. I want him here with me all the time. I live in Northern NJ and he lives in Queens......We can't live together because the cost of tolls to cross 3 bridges everyday as well as gas would put a cruel financial restriction on us.

and we have been together for 4 years........
Mrs. V 2008 Posted:

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I know how you feel i don't live with my fh either..and after vacation it really *****..but welcome home! and glad to hear you had a good trip!

bella1028 Posted:

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I know how you feel i don't live with my fh either..and after vacation it really *****..but welcome home! and glad to hear you had a good trip!



Thank you so much!!! Its nice to know there are others in the same boat
Emily08 Posted:

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Aww don't worry.. with all the wedding planning the time will fly and you'll be living together before you know it!!
minibride08 Posted:

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to you !!!

I totally understand what you mean. FH & I don't live together yet (not until the wedding)... Even though we see each other a lot (we work together) and live close (he's in NYC where we work and I'm in NJ) I am just SOOOOOOOOOO ready for him to move in!!! Can't wait and before we know it our weddings will be here
musicgrl79 Posted:

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i totally know how u feel. i just came back from a mini vacation w/ FH and on the way home i said to him pretty soon he will not have to drop me off at home we will be going home together. it does stink to go back home w/out him.

cbcf Posted:

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i completely understand how you are feeling. but just think at least you arent only seeing your FH every 3-4 or even more months like i do haha and only see him for a weekend or 2 weeks!!!

it stinks i definitely hate not living with him but i cant right now because he is stationed in Japan but I can't wait until he comes home in Nov and we can finally live together!

Just think you will have the rest of your lives when you move in together to enjoy it and when you get married and get ready to move in together it is something else to look forward to and you have that newleywed bliss of living together
bella1028 Posted:

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Posted by cbcf

i completely understand how you are feeling. but just think at least you arent only seeing your FH every 3-4 or even more months like i do haha and only see him for a weekend or 2 weeks!!!

it stinks i definitely hate not living with him but i cant right now because he is stationed in Japan but I can't wait until he comes home in Nov and we can finally live together!

Just think you will have the rest of your lives when you move in together to enjoy it and when you get married and get ready to move in together it is something else to look forward to and you have that newleywed bliss of living together



Awww...I feel awful...this kinda put things in perspective...I hope the time goes quickly for you
heathermatt Posted:

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It does suck ....but I am excited for that day that we will live together...

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