Back to undecided !!!

We decided on Westbury Manor and everything was great. I still had an appt at East Wind today so we just went even though we are dropping off our deposit to WM on wesday.

Fh wanted to book East Wind on the spot. They were alot cheaper so my parents liked it better there too. I personally like the feel and decor of WM better but FH loves East Wind. I don't know what to do. East Wind was very spacious and I think my guests might be more comfortable there but I donno, I still want WM. FH and I now have different #1 choices ahhh!!

I think we will end up with East Wind only because I want to save as much possible money.

I know this makes it harder my top choices were JT and Fox Hollow but FH didn't like them. He actually liked Beckwith Pointe better than those i personally didn't but I wanted to have my reception at a place he liked i was willing to sacrifice that until he found out what i was trying to do and told me NO WAY...to go with what I liked!.. Right before we were going to book JT (because I had actually convince FH for this place) we went to visit the Westbury Manor and we both fell in love with it so we ended up booking WM :) I love that place!. I am soo sorry you are going thru this but I feel you should have a talk with your FH ....I don't want to sound rude but this is not your parent's wedding it is your wedding so don't go with what they say (kind off) go with what you and FH want so I would say discuss this deeply with him!....good luck

G.

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Posted by grrulz

I know this makes it harder my top choices were JT and Fox Hollow but FH didn't like them. He actually liked Beckwith Pointe better than those i personally didn't but I wanted to have my reception at a place he liked i was willing to sacrifice that until he found out what i was trying to do and told me NO WAY...to go with what I liked!.. Right before we were going to book JT (because I had actually convince FH for this place) we went to visit the Westbury Manor and we both fell in love with it so we ended up booking WM :) I love that place!. I am soo sorry you are going thru this but I feel you should have a talk with your FH ....I don't want to sound rude but this is not your parent's wedding it is your wedding so don't go with what they say (kind off) go with what you and FH want so I would say discuss this deeply with him!....good luck

G.

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I agree with glorias advise

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Posted by stinenandy2010

Can you try to negotiate with WM to match EW?

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this is soo true i did that with my reception hall and it worked