I've mentioned once or twice on the boards that my FFIL has Accute Myeloid Lukemia (he was diagnosed in September) Well on Thursday morning I got a phone call from FH crying saying that they had to stop the chemo on his father because he is too sick and the lukemia has spread to his lungs-so this means no bone marrow transplant (he was scheduled to have it the end of this month) and they are giving him about a month to live. Then yesterday morning FH got a phone call from his stepmother saying that the Dr. told her to call the family up. When I got to the hospital yesterday afternoon it was such a sad scene-his father who had looked great about a week ago (great meaning good for a man who had lost all his hair etc) looked like he was knocking on deaths door. It was terrible. Neither FH or I slept all night and FH has to take three tests today that his job depends on (if he fails the first one he loses his job ) So needless to say I'm a nervous wreck now because he just left to go take the tests and I'm praying that his father can hang on at least until he gets out of the tests this afternoon. I'm sorry to spread such depressing news but I just needed to get this off my chest.
ETA 2/8/05 I have some sad news to pass along. Jon's father passed away yesterday morning. I just wanted to thank you all again for your kind thoughts and prayers. We are trying to take comfort in the fact that he is no longer in pain and has moved on to a better place. We have a guardian angel.
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slwh2005
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I am so sorry!!!!!
junebride!
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So sorry to hear of this sad news. My Grandfather had lung cancer adn they had to stop the chemo...I pray your FFIL is not in pain, and tht DH can focus on his tests..I know you know but, want to say it, if you need to 'talk' we're here...
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:pray :
prncssrachel
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I'm so sorry to hear this. I will keep you, your FH and his family in my thoughts and prayers.
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I am so sorry to hear about your sad news. I truly understand what you are going through. My father is also spending his last days in a nursing facility. We do not know how much longer he can hold on. Everyone tells me to be strong but I can't. You are a good person for standing by your new family. I wish I could say something that would make it easier for you. When I pray for my father tonight, I will pray for your FFIL. G-D Bless all of you.
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BriBri529
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You are all in my prayers- please keep us posted
I am so sorry . . .
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jesslangen
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I am so sorry to hear about the bad news. I wish you, FH, and family the best of luck. You are in our prayers!
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Thank you all so much for the kind thoughts and prayers. I will keep you posted on what is going on-we were at the hospital all day yesterday and his father never woke up the whole time. It was a better day than Friday since he was just resting. FH has started to accept that his father is going to die-its really tough. He took his tests he thinks he did OK so hopefully he did. We dont find out the results from his test for 6 MONTHS!!! So we just have to put that to the back of our minds for awhile and hope for the best. Again, I just wanted to thank you all so much-you ladies are amazing.
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I am so sorry to hear that. I will keep you and your Fi in my payers.
BethGail
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i am so sorry that yu are going through all this. i will be keeping you and your family in my thoughts
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So sorry.
Your fi and his family, as well as you and yours will be in my prayers.
May God bless you with strength and calm during this difficult time and I hope your fi does great on those exams. Again, I am sorry!
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I will pray for you, FH, and his family. I'm sure he did fine on his test.