BE MY BRIDESMAIDS

Hey Ladies,

I need more help!!! on actually making a decision
of the bridesmaids

Im still having a hard time deciding how to ask the bridesmaids. I cannot decide if I want to do the Card or a Be My bridesmaid cookie.

ughhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh i cant take this lol!!!

there is so many things i know i wnat to do like give them totes at the shower with a personalized wine glass and in the totes ill put in the slippers and something else.

But asking them is like driving me nuts!!!

Thank you guys!!!!
=)

I used these

http://www.etsy.com/listing/78981895/will-you-be-my-bridesmaid-cards?ref=sr_gallery_1&ga_search_query=will+you+be+my+bridesmaid+cards&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_ship_to=US&ga_page=2&ga_search_type=handmade&ga_facet=handmade

Everyone kept asking me if I choose my bridesmaids yet, and it was impossible to get together with each of my bridesmaid during this time. My cousins live an hour away, so I didnt want to ask my local friends in person and my cousins another way.. I wanted a uniform way of asking and I didnt want to wait till after the holiday season when things calmed down.. so I sent these out to their houses. Each girl called when they got them and went on about how they were so cute and adorable and such a great idea. They were a huge hit! It was simple and inexpensive and something they can keep as a memento!

Dont stress it Im sure any way u ask them will be great!!!!

Try to go with a theme for it and make it cute LOL...but i just straight out told my friends ...lol

Asking my BMs was my first wedding check! I purchased these books and wrote a special/heartfelt note inside the book. I handed out the books the next time I saw my BMs. I didn't get everyone together, since 3 of my BMs are out of state.

http://www.amazon.com/You-Can-Wear-Again-Celebration/dp/0811850528/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1323271578&sr=8-1

I like the Card and Cookie idea! I am sure they will be touched and honored no matter how you ask. ?

i LOVE cookies, so I would go with that

Both ideas are great though! I am doing a little gift and a card.

You could make a dress cookie and then a simple card that says 'Will you take a bite out of being my bridesmaid?' ...or something clearly more clever than that

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Posted by coley27

I used these

http://www.etsy.com/listing/78981895/will-you-be-my-bridesmaid-cards?ref=sr_gallery_1&ga_search_query=will+you+be+my+bridesmaid+cards&ga_view_type=gallery&ga_ship_to=US&ga_page=2&ga_search_type=handmade&ga_facet=handmade

Everyone kept asking me if I choose my bridesmaids yet, and it was impossible to get together with each of my bridesmaid during this time. My cousins live an hour away, so I didnt want to ask my local friends in person and my cousins another way.. I wanted a uniform way of asking and I didnt want to wait till after the holiday season when things calmed down.. so I sent these out to their houses. Each girl called when they got them and went on about how they were so cute and adorable and such a great idea. They were a huge hit! It was simple and inexpensive and something they can keep as a memento!

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I LOVE IT!!!
i love that idea!!!!
very inexpensive and different!!
thank you!!

that card is awesome

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Posted by torresm

i LOVE cookies, so I would go with that

Both ideas are great though! I am doing a little gift and a card.

You could make a dress cookie and then a simple card that says 'Will you take a bite out of being my bridesmaid?' ...or something clearly more clever than that

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I like that quote!!!!!

and the cookies and cards are more of what i think i am going to do

Thank you!

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Posted by LilinBobby

Hey girlie! You know i am doing my box...I like the cookie idea but I like anything cutsie! You can always do a cookie with a card?

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I cant wait to see the pic lol!!!

Ya the cookie and card thing is cute and im more going towards that idea
I just dont know if im gonna have a G2G to ask or do it individual

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Posted by FutureMrsSweeney

Asking my BMs was my first wedding check! I purchased these books and wrote a special/heartfelt note inside the book. I handed out the books the next time I saw my BMs. I didn't get everyone together, since 3 of my BMs are out of state.

http://www.amazon.com/You-Can-Wear-Again-Celebration/dp/0811850528/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1323271578&sr=8-1

I like the Card and Cookie idea! I am sure they will be touched and honored no matter how you ask. ?

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such a cute book-- I think they will be touched too by no matter how i ask too. Thanks the cookie and card is more looking toward my goal!!!!

=) thank you

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Posted by Irishbride16

Dont stress it Im sure any way u ask them will be great!!!!

Try to go with a theme for it and make it cute LOL...but i just straight out told my friends ...lol

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I kind of been telling some of my family LOL but i want it to be different and im a fun goofy person, and i told my fsil that i want her in it lol and she was touched but i am loving the cookie/card!!!

ya i am not gonna stress !! thank you

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Posted by jassy119

I was boring and just asked my girls in person lol But I plan to have a lil g2g with them in the new year. I want to cook them dinner and I want to give them those BM cookies. I think they are so cute. Along with a card thanking them for saying yes.

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I love those cookies!!!!!!!!!!!!!

ya im doing them too lol

I asked each of the girls each a different way LOL MOH I asked by herself obviously when we went to dinner. 2 of my other BM's I asked together since we're usually doing something together. Another one is a family friend so I asked her alone also. Good Luck :) :)

P.S. Love the cookie idea too!!