Be very careful!!!!!

Sunflower08 Posted: Jul 28, 2007 10:16 PM

Be very careful!!!!!

I am telling you ladies . . . . . and take this advice PLEASE.......be very careful of who you choose to be in your bridal party. I have picked someone that (let's just say) goes out of their way to make me feel uncomfortable and enjoys seeing me upset. I wanted to give you ladies a heads up ......CHOOSE WISELY

Snowflake08 Posted: Jul 28, 2007 10:18 PM

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sorry that u are going through this
that is one reason why im only having my sister as my matron of honor

chrispar Posted: Jul 28, 2007 10:21 PM

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This really stinks that you have to deal with this right now. I have a huge bridal party I am sure I will have issues too...

CMaria81 Posted: Jul 28, 2007 10:30 PM

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Posted by Sunflower08

I am telling you ladies . . . . . and take this advice PLEASE.......be very careful of who you choose to be in your bridal party. I have picked someone that (let's just say) goes out of their way to make me feel uncomfortable and enjoys seeing me upset. I wanted to give you ladies a heads up ......CHOOSE WISELY

I completely agree. Choose wisely!

missK Posted: Jul 28, 2007 10:36 PM

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Posted by Sunflower08

I am telling you ladies . . . . . and take this advice PLEASE.......be very careful of who you choose to be in your bridal party. I have picked someone that (let's just say) goes out of their way to make me feel uncomfortable and enjoys seeing me upset. I wanted to give you ladies a heads up ......CHOOSE WISELY

I think shes in my BP too.. I wish I could re choose too. She gives me nothing but greif.

KitWisdom Posted: Jul 28, 2007 10:37 PM

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That's horrible!!!! Sorry that its happening to you

DLM107 Posted: Jul 28, 2007 10:41 PM

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That is terrible!! I am so sorry that you are going through that.

ChristineAaron08 Posted: Jul 28, 2007 11:00 PM

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I am sorry she is being a PITA!

What its her problem?!?!? Is she jealous or just a miserable person in general that she needs to bother you?

So far I havent had many problems, but I think its b/c all my BMs are married and they have been in my position before.

bemyyoko Posted: Jul 28, 2007 11:02 PM

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luna bride x Posted: Jul 29, 2007 02:46 AM

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that's great advice.. bc of all the horror stories i've heard i'm waiting as long as possible to ask anyone!

Fall Bride 2008 Posted: Jul 29, 2007 08:30 AM

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yeah i dont put up with any crap thats why I am one bm short lol but thats ok maybe she will realize and that can change

JTsGal829 Posted: Jul 29, 2007 08:32 AM

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that really stinks that you're dealing with that!! your BMs should really be special people who are happy for you and want to help. I hope your friend turns things around and steps up her game for you!!

yelley77 Posted: Jul 29, 2007 09:12 AM

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I'm so sorry you are having problems with your BP... your wedding will be your day and it will only happen once, don't let ANYONE bring you down!!!

dancinmyazoff Posted: Jul 29, 2007 09:53 AM

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Believe me I alerady know

Sunflower08 Posted: Jul 29, 2007 10:17 AM

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I am so sorry to rant ane rave but I have to say that it is just so nice to be able to vent to you guys. Thanks for listening

liangel901 Posted: Jul 29, 2007 10:31 AM

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this is why we are having a small bridal party.... four on each side. i couldnt see choosing people just to fill up spots and then having roblems occur. im sorry to hear about the situation

bella1028 Posted: Jul 29, 2007 10:37 AM

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im so sorry to hear this...would you consider asking her to not be in your BP? I have been lucky so far, but I feel as though I have heard these stories about BM's many times...do you think its a jealousy thing?