being a bride really stinks sometimes.

This is not to sound greedy or demanding, it's just to vent.

My sister is my maid of honor. She is supposed to be planning my bachelorette party and shower. Neither one is a suprise b/c it can only be one weekend since I live out of town so it's kind of a given that it will be on Oct. 27.

It is 4 weeks till the wedding, the shower and bachelorette party are supposed to be on the Saturday before the wedding (the day after I get in town) so that is 3 weeks from today and invites have still not gone out for either of them. I know this because I actually have friends calling me asking me why they didn't get an invite because they thought they were invited. Come on now.

She just makes me so mad. Then when I call her at work she blows up on me and tells me that she'll call me when she gets off of work. which she never does except for this week when went to bed early and then she got mad at me b/c I was sleeping.

And to top it all off she accused me the other week of wanting to put a bad picture of her in the program so that people won't look at her and will look at me instead. She told me I put myself on a pedastal and I'm ashamed of her.

Give me a break. I'm so done with this whole wedding thing.

sorry you have to deal with this. as you know i'm in the reverse situation (i'll probably have to know when my shower, etc are because i'm out of town most of the time) but i can only hope that my MOH will be on top of things....

i am going through a very similiar situation.. my sister is my MOH and has given me nothing but grief during my engagement.. no help.. no support.. just stress.

nothing is a surprise for me... i practically had to beg for a shower..bachelorette party!!??. fat chance of me having one.. she is so cheap.

sorry you are going through this.... take some comfort that your not alone.

i have vented to a few friends... they think she is jealous... who knows!

never in my wildest dreams would i think my own sister would be this way

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Posted by shoegal68

i am going through a very similiar situation.. my sister is my MOH and has given me nothing but grief during my engagement.. no help.. no support.. just stress.

nothing is a surprise for me... i practically had to beg for a shower..bachelorette party!!??. fat chance of me having one.. she is so cheap.

sorry you are going through this.... take some comfort that your not alone.

i have vented to a few friends... they think she is jealous... who knows!

never in my wildest dreams would i think my own sister would be this way

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That's what one of my bridesmaids said too, that she may be jealous since she's 10 yrs older than me and I'm getting married first ect ect. She was being a snot when we went to go look for my dress too and that's when my bridesmaid said it to me. At first I didn't think so but when she calls and is like 'What are you doing' i'll tell her, 'oh, I'm updating the registry' she responds with 'oh it must be nice' and then for her to come off with that stuff about the picture in the program, give me a break. I am kinda starting to think it but I would have never thought she would be like that. It just really hurts. And we got into a huge argument when she ws making the picture comments and after we got off the phone I told FH that she was a b*tch right before my mom's wedding a few years ago when she got re-married. She started a bunch of trouble. I hope she just stops.

Sorry you're going through this. I feel like this is my future too.... I have to MOHs - my older sister and younger one. My older one is incredible but out of NY. My younger sister already told me she doesn't know if she can go away for my bachelorette party (which I haven't even thought to set a date for yet) because she'll probably be too busy. How do you know how busy you'll be in two years? Hope things get better for you!

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Sorry you're going through this. I feel like this is my future too.... I have to MOHs - my older sister and younger one. My older one is incredible but out of NY. My younger sister already told me she doesn't know if she can go away for my bachelorette party (which I haven't even thought to set a date for yet) because she'll probably be too busy. How do you know how busy you'll be in two years? Hope things get better for you!

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That's crazy! Your actual sister said she might be too busy for your bach. party?? And it's 2 years away?

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Posted by SoontobeMrsMc

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Posted by MrsDtoBe09

Sorry you're going through this. I feel like this is my future too.... I have to MOHs - my older sister and younger one. My older one is incredible but out of NY. My younger sister already told me she doesn't know if she can go away for my bachelorette party (which I haven't even thought to set a date for yet) because she'll probably be too busy. How do you know how busy you'll be in two years? Hope things get better for you!

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That's crazy! Your actual sister said she might be too busy for your bach. party?? And it's 2 years away?

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Yeah, she's a little bit of a nut and a lot of drama queen rolled into one.

i'm so sorry she's putting you through this grief

take some of these

i don't know why, but things seem to go haywire with family where wedding planning is concerned.

I hope everything works out