Best man.. bachelor party news....

beatle06 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 09:20 AM

Best man.. bachelor party news....

Last night we went to dinner with FH's best man. At the end of the night he asked for the email address of the other guys in the wedding so he could set up the BACHELOR PARTY........ i was standing right there.. I was like NOTHING too CRAZY!!!!!!!!! I don't really want to think about it if they bring Fiance to a strip club or something. Why can't they just take him out for drinks!!!!!!!!!!! I trust fiance I just don't want some girl rubbing his head with her B00bs in his face!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

EmberLynn Posted: Oct 22, 2005 09:51 AM

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Well I would talk to your FH. If they take him to a strip club, trust that he won't be getting to personal with the strippers. Years ago, the bestman took the groom to a whore house. Be greatful times have changed, I hope!

JennJay Posted: Oct 22, 2005 10:04 AM

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Posted by honeybee06

Last night we went to dinner with FH's best man. At the end of the night he asked for the email address of the other guys in the wedding so he could set up the BACHELOR PARTY........ i was standing right there.. I was like NOTHING too CRAZY!!!!!!!!! I don't really want to think about it if they bring Fiance to a strip club or something. Why can't they just take him out for drinks!!!!!!!!!!! I trust fiance I just don't want some girl rubbing his head with her B00bs in his face!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Don't worry.... I know how you feel. I hate that image in my mind everytime i think about my fh bachelor party, but just try to think that he is marrying you and he wont do anything too crazy. Its like, us girls just want a night out dancing with our girl freinds, and they can't have a bachelor party without strippers. Just try to think that he is just watching a show.

EmberLynn Posted: Oct 22, 2005 10:10 AM

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Posted by JennJay

Posted by honeybee06

Last night we went to dinner with FH's best man. At the end of the night he asked for the email address of the other guys in the wedding so he could set up the BACHELOR PARTY........ i was standing right there.. I was like NOTHING too CRAZY!!!!!!!!! I don't really want to think about it if they bring Fiance to a strip club or something. Why can't they just take him out for drinks!!!!!!!!!!! I trust fiance I just don't want some girl rubbing his head with her B00bs in his face!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Don't worry.... I know how you feel. I hate that image in my mind everytime i think about my fh bachelor party, but just try to think that he is marrying you and he wont do anything too crazy. Its like, us girls just want a night out dancing with our girl freinds, and they can't have a bachelor party without strippers. Just try to think that he is just watching a show.

Thats all it is. Hes not marrying her, buying her gifts, or taking her home. Hes just watching some chicks dance. Its just guys being guys. Why not even t hings out a bit and go to a strip club yourself (with men) for your bacholette party. If the club sence isn't for you, I suggest a play called Naked boys sing. Its a WONDERFUL, tasteful play, FULL male nudity. I swear to you, it is very tastful, its art actually, but its funny, entertianing and worth going to see more than once!

beatle06 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 10:18 AM

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I know you girls are right. But I even have a problem that he orders Maxim magazine! And the magazine isn't too too bad there are more articles and stuff, i just don't like the girls on the cover. I'm conservative I guess.. but once we're married i don't want to go to the mailbox and see that magazine!!!!!!!!

EmberLynn Posted: Oct 22, 2005 10:20 AM

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my FH best man is far worse. Last I heard about the Bachelor party they were talking about my FH being so hung over, that Dave (bm) would have to carry joe (FH) to the alter in a wheel barrel! I told Joe I would walk off the aisle and go home without him, if he does that!

andreascott Posted: Oct 22, 2005 11:04 AM

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You have to know that its his last nite of freedom. He will never do anything to hurt you. But I am sure you are having a bachelorette party and you 2 will have the funniest night ever. That night is kinda a way your FH tests you if you trust him. Yes we are all worried but its just a night out with his boys. I know my fiance and I both have girl and guy nights every week.

PS Maxim mag is actually really funny. I used to hate that he ordered it but when I read it one day I was like omg I actually like this mag.

October Bliss Posted: Oct 22, 2005 11:09 AM

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Posted by honeybee06

Last night we went to dinner with FH's best man. At the end of the night he asked for the email address of the other guys in the wedding so he could set up the BACHELOR PARTY........ i was standing right there.. I was like NOTHING too CRAZY!!!!!!!!! I don't really want to think about it if they bring Fiance to a strip club or something. Why can't they just take him out for drinks!!!!!!!!!!! I trust fiance I just don't want some girl rubbing his head with her B00bs in his face!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Did best man mention a strip club, or are you jumping to conclusions? Maybe he is planning a trip to Atlantic City or Mohegan Sun. Even if they are planning a strip club, I wouldn't worry about it. FH is marrying you, not some girl that dances with her top off.

suzybilly819 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 01:04 PM

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Have no fear. Boys will be boys.

thefirstlady Posted: Oct 22, 2005 01:21 PM

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Maybe you guys should make some boundaries in private, without BM being there. Tell him you have every intention of respecting him on your night, and you expect the same as him. Who cares if strippers are rubbing on the other guys, let them have their fun! But be honest w/ your man, and he'll respect you b/c he loves you! And don't feel too bad, my friend won't even move in w/ her bf b/c he has a subscription to playboy, and gets all the channels! (ps and she's got a playmates body!!!) Boys will be boys!!!

jellybean1420 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 01:58 PM

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I don't think bachelor parties are a big deal. My FH's friends want to take him to Vegas for a weekend and I told them I would help them plan it. If you trust him you have nothing to worry about. I want him to have a good time...I don't think there is anything wrong with it.

JanuaryBride06 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 02:00 PM

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Don't worry about boobs in the face; the bouncers in strip clubs are there to make sure that the guys don't touch the girls. Going to a strip club is better than having a stripper show up to a private party - it will be fine.

Concentrate on the fun you'll have at your party!

AlliNMatt06 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 05:22 PM

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I have been to a strip club before. It is stupid, the girls dance and guys throw dollars at them. It really is just a bar with girls dancing half naked. Pretty much the same as any club you go to. You are thinking to much into it. He is marrying you and only you. That means he loves you and wouldn't do anything to hurt you.

Him and his friends just want to have a good time. DONT WORRY!!!

evnme Posted: Oct 22, 2005 05:26 PM

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i set 2 rules for the batchelor party- topless is ok, but not bottomless, and no touching my fh.
the BM and other gm's werent happy, but if my main stipulation is that the women have to wear a thong or something, what's the big deal.
fh is an attorney and he wrote out the rules that they have to follow.

ETA:
they're going to AC for the weekend...

Goldi1021 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 05:29 PM

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It isnt legal to 'touch' in NY. You have to go to Canada for that - or Vegas. FH is going to Vegas. Thats fine because if my bachelorette party is what I think its gonna be, no amount of boobs could top it!

SweetCin704 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 05:30 PM

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And what type of party is that LEslie?

Goldi1021 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 05:33 PM

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I am not at liberty to discuss it.

mtdr1106 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 05:48 PM

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look at the bachelor party as a guys 'tradition' of sorts. strip clubs are what they do.

don't make yourself crazy over it.......
try to feel better..

EmberLynn Posted: Oct 22, 2005 06:02 PM

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Posted by Goldi1021

It isnt legal to 'touch' in NY. You have to go to Canada for that - or Vegas. FH is going to Vegas. Thats fine because if my bachelorette party is what I think its gonna be, no amount of boobs could top it!

The guy is suppose to sit on his hands.

Goldi1021 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 06:15 PM

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Posted by EmberLynn

Posted by Goldi1021

It isnt legal to 'touch' in NY. You have to go to Canada for that - or Vegas. FH is going to Vegas. Thats fine because if my bachelorette party is what I think its gonna be, no amount of boobs could top it!
The guy is suppose to sit on his hands.

And see thats the thing. If I were a guy at a strip club and I couldnt touch, why bother? You know exactly what each and every one of these guys is going to do when they get home. LAME I tell you DAMN LAME!!!