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Best Man issues (very long)

pixietina Posted:

Best Man issues (very long)

In a previous post I mentioned that we got rid of the best man. I don't mind telling you girls what happened. FH doesn't really have any close friends. There is one GM he would really want to be the BM but since I don't like him that much he didn't pick him as the BM. The BM (Alex) turned out to be a guy that worked for him that he has known for a long time.

My opinion is that they are only friends because they work together. We never see this guy outside of work to hang out or anything. Recently he has wanted to become a partner in FH's business without putting money in it. He tried that but Alex starting acting like he could tell my FH want to do like he was his boss. FH decided not to do the partner thing. Alex got mad and said he would quit and FH let him especially since now he can't afford to pay Alex.

Now Alex has been begging to get his job back cause he needs to pay rent. FH was willing to let him work part time for just a few days but he called out every single time. Now supposedly he is getting unemployment which should be impossible since he quit. He was on the books for a small amount of money and got the rest in cash. So he is getting checks for the small amount.

Well Alex has a lawyer for an injury he got and the lawyer told Alex he should sue my FH since he should get more money for unemployment. Alex tells FH this and says that they can't talk anymore. Then Alex's roommate called FH and said he saw something in the mail that looks like Alex might really sue him.

Obviously this is not a person that will be involved in our wedding. So help me if he does try to sue FH I will get him arrested for the dirt I have on him! I don't play nice when someone tries to mess with my man.
gmcamp Posted:

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Wow, what a mess. You're 100% right, this guy has NO place in the wedding, and no place in your life. He's a jerk, and the type of person who will flip on you out of nowhere to get a dime. I hope your FH doesn't give any more chances.

cms82288 Posted:

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wow.. sad story.. sorry to hear you and fh are going through this. Do you have family members that could be in the BP ?

pixietina Posted:

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Posted by cms82288

wow.. sad story.. sorry to hear you and fh are going through this. Do you have family members that could be in the BP ?



He has a brother that I don't get along with either. We are going to pick someone that is already a GM to be the BM. I don't know if I will add another GM or not.
mds110286 Posted:

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omg thats crazy! he has no place in your wedding - your FH also does not have to have a BM! Im so sorry this is happening to you

CaughtMyFish Posted:

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wow, so sorry to hear this!! I guess you truly cant mix business with pleasure.

SEB102707 Posted:

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What an @ss!!!! I'm sorry you and FH are going through this!

CaseyCase Posted:

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Based on my experience since I do this for my dad, when someone applys for unemployment the employer its notified by mail with amounts and dates at that point your fh should clearly describe that he was fired or quit for such and such legal reason. There should also be aphone number u can call on that paperwork.if you get any mail from an attorney forward it to your attorney stat!

oct13bride Posted:

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This sucks- I'm sorry you guys are going through this.

rdhbride Posted:

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Ugh, what a mess! Sorry you and your FH have to deal with this during such a happy time!

StephanieJoy Posted:

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so sorry to hear this. Hope things work out.

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