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Beware or lurking Vendors!!!!

krislee316 Posted:

Beware or lurking Vendors!!!!

Hi girls so I replyed to a post the other day about a certain DJ company saying that at the showcase i couldnt hear the MC either and now today i get a message from that vendor telling me they would like to address my concerns blah blah blah is it me or dont u think they should not be commenting on stuff we are posting!! That is why there is a vendor board if we want to hear from u then we will ask

Has anyone else had this happen to them?
PoppedInASnap Posted:

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Posted by krislee316

Hi girls so I replyed to a post the other day about a certain DJ company saying that at the showcase i couldnt hear the MC either and now today i get a message from that vendor telling me they would like to address my concerns blah blah blah is it me or dont u think they should not be commenting on stuff we are posting!! That is why there is a vendor board if we want to hear from u then we will ask

Has anyone else had this happen to them?



MEEE it happened to me when I was new on the site!!!! But my post was taken down!!!
Im a Pepper Posted:

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I've heard of this happening and I think it's terrible! If we wanted to take something up with a vendor, we would do it personally.
LegoBride Posted:

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Yeah its terrible we are only allowed to say nice things about the vendors - that's not all that helpful

tgrlily339 Posted:

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Posted by LegoBride

Yeah its terrible we are only allowed to say nice things about the vendors - that's not all that helpful



I agree.. we are on here to get helpful opinions and when things are taken down because they reflect negatively on the vendor especially a associated vendor it is not fair. Im here to make sure I dont pick a vendor that people have had problems with, but evidently we are not allowed to have honest opinions
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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I havent had it happen on here, but I have on a cruise forum. It was very strange to me when I got the email addressing my concerns, but the person turned out to be a really great guy!

CNC4eva3402 Posted:

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I've had it happen before, nothing bad but they just commented on something I said. I wonder how often they read the boards?!? I almost feel stalked sometimes
mls282 Posted:

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Same thing happened to me. I thought it was odd... and slightly intimidating. I understand that they want things to run smoothly etc. But I should be allowed to share my opinion and get feedback from other brides that is what this site is all about. I had some other concerns about the way I was treated the day I went to that DJ showcase that made me really second guess my choice recently. But now I feel slightly uncomfortable posting and getting advice on here from other brides about this.

Brila09 Posted:

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Well I hope FM Entertainment read my pissy post when they ruined the billy joel singer that I was going to get as a surprise for my FH by calling him and asking him about it!!
krislee316 Posted:

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Posted by Brila09

Well I hope FM Entertainment read my pissy post when they ruined the billy joel singer that I was going to get as a surprise for my FH by calling him and asking him about it!!



WHAT???? OMG I must have missed that post that really really S U C K S they should be ashamed of themselves!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
Brila09 Posted:

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Yeah, i was aggrivated. Well that was that!

krislee316 Posted:

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Posted by Brila09

Yeah, i was aggrivated. Well that was that!



I would have told them to forget it now they ruined the suprise
aliska21 Posted:

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well yes...it happend to me too..
ofcourse they are lurking and want to know what we are saying about them.. i mean we all have each others emails and if we want to give a negative comment we can do it through the phone or email...but thats what they dooo!!!..
i hate it......i got really mad when one of my vendors(the one im using anymore) said something about iit!....anyway...
mls282 Posted:

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Posted by Brila09

Well I hope FM Entertainment read my pissy post when they ruined the billy joel singer that I was going to get as a surprise for my FH by calling him and asking him about it!!



After reading about your experience I made sure I didnt give them FH's phone number just my private cell. I booked a percussionist as a surprised for FH since he plays the drums so he can be surprised and maybe go up there and play a song.
IrishBrideASmiling Posted:

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Yea it s u c ks that they read this but it is a public forum.

If you think about it, it could be a good thing. I mean if they read how unhappy you are, they may try and make you happy by throwing in free stuff.
Dani777 Posted:

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Yes... I had that happen to me as well...
I was making a small complaint about how much flowers can be...since I obviously had NO idea! Then I had about 4 other flower venders contact me ... OK... just odd. Venders need to stay on the vender site. If I wanted to have vender help I would go to the vender page! Frustration!
MrsDtoBe09 Posted:

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I think its only creepy if its your vendor... if its vendors that just want to hook you with 'we're not like the others' then its okay.

Brila09 Posted:

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Posted by mls282


Posted by Brila09

Well I hope FM Entertainment read my pissy post when they ruined the billy joel singer that I was going to get as a surprise for my FH by calling him and asking him about it!!



After reading about your experience I made sure I didnt give them FH's phone number just my private cell. I booked a percussionist as a surprised for FH since he plays the drums so he can be surprised and maybe go up there and play a song.



I didnt give it to them either! It must have been on our paperwork somewhere because I couldnt figure out how they even got his number.
egem523 Posted:

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Posted by Brila09

Well I hope FM Entertainment read my pissy post when they ruined the billy joel singer that I was going to get as a surprise for my FH by calling him and asking him about it!!



They print out our post and shows them to brides who visit there showercase. That is sign right there they lurk on this board. Kind of creepy
krislee316 Posted:

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Posted by egem523


Posted by Brila09

Well I hope FM Entertainment read my pissy post when they ruined the billy joel singer that I was going to get as a surprise for my FH by calling him and asking him about it!!



They print out our post and shows them to brides who visit there showercase. That is sign right there they lurk on this board. Kind of creepy



oh yeah that is true I was at a showcase last week and they had a book of all the posts from other brides

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