BEYOND PISSED RIGHT NOW!

Well we were all set to get the final measurements today for the damn BM dresses...then one of the BM (someone in FI family) says that she can't do it but will maybe be able to do it this week ARE YOU EFFING KIDDING ME.... I said to him well relay the message that if she does not go this week...thats it...they WILL BE ORDERED AND THAT IS TOO BAD...

So does anyone want to be a BM???

Awww..
I know how stressful it is. My sister is my MOH [I choose not to have a bridal party other than her] and she's always putting me off.
People SUCK!!!

Sorry you're going through this....some people just have no clue about deadlines and think everything works around their schedules...

We went yesterday and ordered their dresses.. it is hard to get everybody together, and I only got 3!

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Posted by MrsStefan

I am waiting for this to happen to me. FSIL does not want to order the dress when we need to..she wants to wait. FH told her that she needed to have her measurements in by a certain date or the dress will not be ordered and she will not be in the bridal party. We'll see what happens...GOOD LUCK!! I feel your pain

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Yup this is what we are doing! It is really aggravating!

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Posted by BKtoLI

Sorry you're going through this....some people just have no clue about deadlines and think everything works around their schedules...

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And the thing about it is...we scheduled this appointment around HER!

i'm free that day its good that you're putting your foot down on this

I will!!!!! I look great in your color

Plus I plan a mean bacherlorette party!!!!!!!!!!!

no point getting aggrivated and pissed.

Its out of your hands....she said shed get it done. Leave it up to her and relax. No neen to micromanage your wedding so that it gets upsetting

Girl I know exactly how you feel!!!!

That stinks. I think you should just order the gown without her. Taking the measurements is like 5 minutes tops.

why not suggest she just go another day? looks like you've got time.

i thought everyone had to go at once and then learned otherwise. I don't think it will be a problem.

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Posted by beautyq115

Well we were all set to get the final measurements today for the damn BM dresses...then one of the BM (someone in FI family) says that she can't do it but will maybe be able to do it this week ARE YOU EFFING KIDDING ME.... I said to him well relay the message that if she does not go this week...thats it...they WILL BE ORDERED AND THAT IS TOO BAD...

So does anyone want to be a BM???

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Something must be in the air! I gave all of my BM PLENTY of time to get their measurements in to me. I am ordering the dresses in another week and my FI's sister is like oh, well I'm not sure blah blah blah ... can't it wait until I have been to the gym for atleast a month so I can give you a good estimate of how much weight I will have lost by then. Sh's kidding me right??

Sweetie, some people are inconsiderate and when the time comes, those that don't have their stuff together will be dropped. Not worth the stress!!!