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pinkstar025 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 02:04 PM

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so my best friend who hasnt returned a single one of my phone calls since her b-day in april (whe has slowly been not returning phone calls since last year) well she never picked up her dress..i had to AND pay for it and she has never called back my million phone calls.....ignored my b-day...missed my shower and BP.....well i email her a joke email that i always do to check up to see if she is reading these or not

her response:

please take me off your mailing list and my $50 deposit back would be nice. thanks

ummmm how about the $50 gift and $140 balance and STRESS i had to deal with because of her neglegance.
ughhhh

2 weeks before my wedding she pulls this crap
( my sister best friend is filling in her spot so im not stuck already)

pinkstar025 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 02:07 PM

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let me mention i have NEVER IN MY LIFE done her wrong..if anythign im her rebound when her boyfriend or friends, or family or work pisses her off...THATS when she calls

jes81276 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 02:08 PM

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I'm so sorry - did you have an argument? Did you ask her what her problem was?

pinkstar025 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 02:13 PM

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i keptmy cool and wrote back a VERY nice letter asking her to explain what went wrong and why she is upset and told her how mcuh this has been upsetting me -her writing me off-
when normal me would go down there adn bang on her door for an explination

but seriously NOTHING went wrong..she got a boyfriend and drifter...i thought that was normal....but she just DISAPPEARED.....but i didnt give up ono her til after my b-day when she never called me for it..or returned my calls the 2 months prior

103005FallBride Posted: Oct 22, 2005 02:22 PM

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I hope everything works out ok...
I find the older I get the less quality of friends is a lot better than quantity. We kept our BP to all family with the exception of one very dear friend.
Sometimes when friends act like this it's better to just cut them off completely. I had a friend like that and finally just said enough is enough. She would say nothing was wrong when I did finally speak to her, but that was far and few between. So...my energy and love went to the friends that have stuck by through thick and thin.
Good luck.

brooklynbridezilla Posted: Oct 22, 2005 02:30 PM

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Oh Nicole, she S@CKS!!!!!!! Better that she doesn't come to your wedding and ruin your day by acting like an azz. I'm sorry she hurt and disappointed you.

tray831 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 02:39 PM

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How long have you guys been friends for? For someone to be called even a friend, nevermind a BEST friend, and did what she did, is just absolutely uncalled for.

She is telling you to remove her from your email list and wants her deposit??? Why hasnt she told you all along that she didnt want to be a bridesmaid. Im sorry but what she did to you was real, real shi%%y of her.

Im not so sure I'd be so nice......

These are the people in life.......that I hope get theirs one day.

Mrs_B Posted: Oct 22, 2005 02:49 PM

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OMG WHAT A B ! T C H!!!!!!!!! Im sorry you have to deal with this garbage right before your wedding. Better you found out now though. Oh man people su ck!

Happybride2005 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 03:24 PM

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i'm sorry you're going through that with all the aggravation she put u through, she wants her 50.00 back. u deserve an explanation

beautyq115 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 04:06 PM

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Holy Crap!!! I am so sorry

pinkstar025 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 05:03 PM

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thanks girls

she is the one who actually hookd Fh and me up

whatever!!!!! Im better off without her!!!!

Just had to vent!!!

SPITSBRIDE Posted: Oct 22, 2005 05:08 PM

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Posted by pinkstar025

thanks girls

she is the one who actually hookd Fh and me up

whatever!!!!! Im better off without her!!!!

Just had to vent!!!

That really stinks, sorry to hear about the added stress she is giving you but look on the bright side...at least one good thing came out this, your soon to be hubby

pinkstar025 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 06:06 PM

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Posted by SPITSBRIDE

Posted by pinkstar025

thanks girls

she is the one who actually hookd Fh and me up

whatever!!!!! Im better off without her!!!!

Just had to vent!!!

That really stinks, sorry to hear about the added stress she is giving you but look on the bright side...at least one good thing came out this, your soon to be hubby

YUP!!!

and whenever i have gotten stresed over her neglegance the past few years...i think just that!!

SPITSBRIDE Posted: Oct 22, 2005 06:11 PM

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That's the most important thing

sarahthegreat Posted: Oct 22, 2005 06:23 PM

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wow - weddings truly bring out hte worst in people. that sux.....sorry

babybug631 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 06:36 PM

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That *****!!! I guess you're better off without her. She doesn't seem like a good friend at all.

JBKempf Posted: Oct 22, 2005 07:16 PM

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What nerve huh? I would not give her back her $50. I would ignore her emails just as she ignored yours. Why go out of your way for her? She obviously didn't care enough about you.

suzybilly819 Posted: Oct 22, 2005 07:21 PM

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HOLY CRAP!!!

GOOD RIDDENS.

Enjoy your wedding

LoriH Posted: Oct 22, 2005 07:50 PM

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I know how you feel. I had a friend from HS go psycho biatch on me a week and a half before my wedding while I was in Florida for my Grandfather's funeral.
Don't let it bother you now, vent it all out and then let it roll off. Someone like that does not deserve to take too much of your attention before the wedding. There are much better things for you to concentrate on. Feel better.