big azz vent

FH's family is organizing a stupid brunch this Sunday. YES! THIS SUNDAY! same day that my parents are coming
I dont want to spend my time with them, but mostly I want to spend my time in making the last cleaning arrangements, buying maybe something I missed and just relaxing before having my apt overtaken by extra 4 ppl.
I dont want to go to BK and spend that precious time w/his family.
At 1st I said ok to FH cause it sounded like he really wanted to go and I thought it will be at like 11:30-12, plus we need FMIL's car to pick my parents up from the airport. But no, its at 1, and with them everything always starts late.

I told now FH that I dont want to go, that I have my own family to worry about but he can go alone. He didnt want to. SO he hung up on me.
Now he calls me back and says he doesnt want any drama and he will do whatever I want - so we won't go.

Whatever.
What pizzes me off the most is that no one of that side ever cares about what is going on with me and FH, they say freaking 'jump' so we need to jump. Eff that!
No one asked ME if that is a good time and if it will work out w/picking my parents up. to this FH said 'they dont even know they are coming!' WHAT????????????? ARE THEY EFFIN KIDDING ME?????

So mad right now!

are they hosting anythign for your family????? why r they doing a brunch on the same day they fkn come???

im so angry for u

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Posted by grkbarbie

are they hosting anythign for your family????? why r they doing a brunch on the same day they fkn come???

im so angry for u

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b/c of mother's day.
that is a very good question Barb! I want to fking cry, doing something for my parents that has been a huge drama of its own. I honestly have no clue if they will be invited to FMIL's house even

is it a mother's day brunch? we're going to one too, but its been planned forever.

Hell, you have family coming in to visit and stay with you. He'll have to go alone.

wow... that's rude that they never even checked with you. sorry you are going through this so close to the wedding.

is it a brunch for mother's day? whatever happened with the party they were gonna host to meet your family?

can you bring your parents over to FIL's for the brunch?

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Posted by MR1223

wow... that's rude that they never even checked with you. sorry you are going through this so close to the wedding.

is it a brunch for mother's day? whatever happened with the party they were gonna host to meet your family?

can you bring your parents over to FIL's for the brunch?

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yes mother's day. the brunch is before they land

THAT IS SOME FCUKED UP SHIIT REGY !!!!

IM SUPER PISSED FOR YOU !!!!!!!!!!!!

What time are your parents coming?

Can u make the brunch so it wont be awkward...and also.. u don't want them to have anything against u this close to the wedding. Unfortunately... this is ALL POLITICS.

Can u just go with Geremie to the brunch and then go pick up your parents?

This way they cant say anything bad about u or Geremie..and the ball will be in THEIR court. They should invite your fam over for coffee afterwards. and if they don't, SHAME on them.. but at least u will have a clear conscience

@barbs

dude, that sounds like so much running around!!

omg, that is a lot of running around - can his parents come early - 1 is lunch not brunch

yes. have his parents go to brunch EARLIER

have Geremie TELL THEM (not ASK) that he will be going with you to the airport and he can only make brunch if its at 11:30.

any NORMAL mother would insist on her son missing brunch to go MEET his INLAWS. if she gets angry then again, SHAME ON HER

rudeee

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Posted by grkbarbie

What time are your parents coming?

Can u make the brunch so it wont be awkward...and also.. u don't want them to have anything against u this close to the wedding. Unfortunately... this is ALL POLITICS.

Can u just go with Geremie to the brunch and then go pick up your parents?

This way they cant say anything bad about u or Geremie..and the ball will be in THEIR court. They should invite your fam over for coffee afterwards. and if they don't, SHAME on them.. but at least u will have a clear conscience

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this is exactly what Geremie wanted to do. But I dont know, I am being a brat to be honest. It's just I really dont want to spend any time with them. I want to concentrate on my family, for God's sake I havent seen or touched them in a year and a half!!!! I want to make everything perfect for their arrival.

another thing that pissed me off is that they made it in BK, close to FSIL's house! we are coming from Westchester, so that kills my morning even if I did try to cram as much as I can do before we leave


thanks everyone for ur input

but bklyn is perfect!!!!! its right next to JFK!


i know u have a sour taste in your mouth..but try to look at the positives

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Posted by grkbarbie

but bklyn is perfect!!!!! its right next to JFK!


i know u have a sour taste in your mouth..but try to look at the positives

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Barb ur totally right. I mean my rational side is saying the same thing, but the side that got hurt so many times wants to be a biatch
I am still angry about the freaking dinner and FMIL that is supposed to do it and nothing but drama I have seen so far, so to go and celebrate mother's day????? I dont want to

I even sound immature to myself