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christophersgirl Posted:

big huge dilemma

alright ladies, so those of you who remember my post on my first dress shopping experience earlier this week will remember i liked the dress a lot, but i wasn't sure that i loved it... today i get a call from mom, that her friend called her and told her that she would give me the dress, for FREE!!!!!! i know i don't love it to death, but i really like it...do i continue shopping?!??! or do i just take the offer and thank her?! she is closing her doors at the end of the month... i've arranged to try on dresses at the bridal garden and the wedding atelier on the 30th....oh gods what do i do?!

krislee316 Posted:

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Posted by christophersgirl

alright ladies, so those of you who remember my post on my first dress shopping experience earlier this week will remember i liked the dress a lot, but i wasn't sure that i loved it... today i get a call from mom, that her friend called her and told her that she would give me the dress, for FREE!!!!!! i know i don't love it to death, but i really like it...do i continue shopping?!??! or do i just take the offer and thank her?! she is closing her doors at the end of the month... i've arranged to try on dresses at the bridal garden and the wedding atelier on the 30th....oh gods what do i do?!




I would def take the dress I mean it is free!!! But continue shopping and if you find something else then at least you didnt spend $$$$ on the first one
FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted:

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take the dress and be a 2 dress bride who changes into something diff at the reception

christophersgirl Posted:

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

take the dress and be a 2 dress bride who changes into something diff at the reception



im already wearing three dresses by tradition haha... can i work two wedding dresses a red chinese dress and a getaway dress? is that overkill?
nicopico13 Posted:

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hmm thats a toughy, what was she planning of doing with all the dresses once she closes? If she was just going to toss them all anyways I would say take it and continue looking just in case. You really want to wear a dress you love and although its great that its free, I wouldn't settle just because its free. HTH
geegee827 Posted:

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I agree - take the free dress and if you find something you like better, you don't need to use it.

krislee316 Posted:

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Posted by nicopico13

hmm thats a toughy, what was she planning of doing with all the dresses once she closes? If she was just going to toss them all anyways I would say take it and continue looking just in case. You really want to wear a dress you love and although its great that its free, I wouldn't settle just because its free. HTH



I totally agree. another thing is if the woman is going to be at the wedding that may be a little awkward
christophersgirl Posted:

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Posted by nicopico13

hmm thats a toughy, what was she planning of doing with all the dresses once she closes? If she was just going to toss them all anyways I would say take it and continue looking just in case. You really want to wear a dress you love and although its great that its free, I wouldn't settle just because its free. HTH



I totally agree. another thing is if the woman is going to be at the wedding that may be a little awkward



yep she is gonna be invited to the wedding haha
maybe i can do an engagement shoot with a wedding dress lol
littlepixie12 Posted:

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OMG! Free is free .. i would take it

MaggieLuvsJoe Posted:

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hmm thats a tough one, I believe that you should love the dress you marry the man of your dreams in...with that said, take the free dress and keep looking. You can always sell the free dress or use it for a trash the dress shoot

Im a Pepper Posted:

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FREE?!? Take it and keep looking!

Future Mrs Roo Posted:

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take the dress b/c its free!!! BUT continue looking to see if their is something else out there

JennyAPH Posted:

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FREE DRESS!! Take it and run! If you find something else you can be a two dress bride, or you can take different pictures with it, or donate it and do something nice right back
flairforfashion Posted:

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Freeeeeeeee is goooood! Take it!

Princesa Posted:

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This is kind of hard considering that she is invited to the wedding she might expect you to wear her dress and her dress only as the wedding dress and she might take it a little personal if you use another dress. It's one of those tricky situations.

megsher Posted:

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I would take it. If you find something new, it's a bonus!

Brat23 Posted:

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Take the dress and continue shopping. If you find another you like sell the original and claim it ripped LOL

christophersgirl Posted:

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Posted by Brat23

Take the dress and continue shopping. If you find another you like sell the original and claim it ripped LOL



haha i wished i had the cajones to claim that when it's not true
Nuvia97 Posted:

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take the dress, cant hurt since it is free
keep looking and if you find something else you can take pictures with both day of..
LeeAnne Posted:

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TAKE THE DRESS!!!! its free!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

you could always continue shopping for other ones and if you fall in love with a different dress you wont feel bad bc you never paid for the first one

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