BIG MOH problem- what do you think? Am I doing something wrong?

So my MOH has been a friend for about 12 years. We've had our ups and downs but I decided to make her my MOH anyway. She's been pretty good so far- she listen to me alot although she is a horrible gift giver. I know that sounds bad but she is incredibly cheap when it comes to me. She'll go and spend money on her friends at the bar yet for my engagement party she got me a bagel slicer and a half-done scrapbook that was for ME only (totally excluded fiance- didn't even include him in teh card). Anyway, so I've been dealing with all these little things about her that **** me off. She is a very unhappy person in general so I think it's hard for her to be happy for me. So the latest thing is that I ask her to come ot my first fitting with me 2 weeks ago. She says ok. The fitting is tomorrow and she tells me her TV broke and the only day she can go with her dad to get a new one is tomorrow. I ask if she can go before or after my fitting and she's just like I don't know - I HAVE to get a new TV tomorrow. Now, she works 5 minutes from major appliance stores plus this is 13 inch TV- not a major 36 inch purchase!

So I say well I would really likeyou at the fitting. Then she starts to say well- this isn't important- its just a fitting. You'll have others, why do I need to go? Then she tells me how should she know it's important? I toldher I don't usually ask her to do something with me TWO WEEKS in advance unless it IS important! We go around and around in a fight and basically we are still at ****ed at each other. I have not asked her to do much with me. When I do, half the time its a hassle.

PLus she brought up the fact that I only ask her to do things with FI can't! For example, I usually bring her ot the florist with me. Last time I didn't because FI and I werte on teh way to the catering hall! I mean -she brings up stupid little things thinking I purposely do this to her! So to sum it up, its not just about this fight- its about all these things.

My fitting is tomorrow- she finally said FINE I'll GO! I told her not to- I don't want her to be someplace she doesnt' want ot be at. She then called me a baby and said I was playing games!!

What do I do???? Doesn't think sound like we're in high school? I am so upset!

I'm so sorry for what your MOH is putting you thru. You probably won't want to here this, but she sounds exacly my ex best friend(also exMOH ). Unfortunately, when you are planning a wedding you really do find out who your real friends are & sometimes it turns out people you thought were friends aren't really. Its sad & upsetting, just try to make the best of it. For me, our friendship is totally over(& this girl even lived with my mom & my little sister for quite awhile, so she really was like a sister to me, or at least I thought so, but I guess it wasn't like that for her). Honestly, she was never really a good friend to me(we had fun, but she had lots of issues that I was always there for, but meanwhile she was never there for me). I thought when it came to my wedding she would step up & be the friend I thought she could be, & boy was I wrong. She ruined a lot of my wedding planning for me & know matter how horrible it was for me to have her drop out 6 weeks before my wedding, I am relieved that she won't be there on my wedding day on Friday.