BIPOLAR wedding decisions

I keep going back and forth on decisions for this wedding! It's so frustrating!
We originally wanted a warm wedding, then went around to tons of places and realized we cant afford it, so decided on March... went for tasting at hall we like yesterday with FIL, the problem: Hall didn't pencil us in and didnt know we were coming, whoever I set the appointment up with over phone, F'd up...

I think it's forgivable since they went out of their way to still accomodate us while a wedding was going on... but the food available to taste was 'eh'.

ANYWAY FIL and my mom think its bad sign and they cant be trusted with being organized and punctual. and want us to pick different place, but they aren't paying for this, we are. BUT I kinda agree with them.... ARRGH, We are on tight small budget, and sometimes I feel this is just not gonna get done....

Sigh. sorry for long post need to vent

awww.....girl, i totally feel you! i feel the exact same way! i have been going back and forth about everything, and i cant stand it! i have posted numerous times on here about possibly changing my date, but still have not made my decision yet! i hope this is not a sign on what the rest of wedding planning will be like . thinfs will come together soon! try not to stress to much.