black tie optional???

MandM07-03-05 Posted: Nov 24, 2004 04:28 PM

black tie optional???

pbscutie Posted: Nov 24, 2004 04:34 PM

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I wouldn't write anything and hope for the best.

AJsMommy122 Posted: Nov 24, 2004 04:35 PM

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Posted by pbscutie

I wouldn't write anything and hope for the best.

I agree. I would have your parents spread the word to the rest of the family but I definitly wouldnt put it on the invites.

randella Posted: Nov 24, 2004 04:52 PM

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I don't think you can write black tie optional for a day affair...

There may be some other phrase you can use like formal attire (which implies black tie, but isn't) or Semi-formal attire- which means cocktail dresses and suits and ties.

alibali Posted: Nov 24, 2004 04:56 PM

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i agree.. don't write anything.

my wedding is on a sunday morning and my mother keeps telling me that it can't be black tie. well, its your wedding, you set the mood for the day. if you want everyone in full tuxes or if you want everyone in shorts.. its your decision.

have your parents and bridal party spread the word to people who might dress more casual.

MandM07-03-05 Posted: Nov 24, 2004 06:26 PM

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boo

Robinella Posted: Nov 24, 2004 06:59 PM

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hope for the best...

MandM07-03-05 Posted: Nov 24, 2004 07:10 PM

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any other terms that i can use?

AJsMommy122 Posted: Nov 24, 2004 07:15 PM

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I think your best bet would be to put ' formal reception to follow'
that should give people the idea.

hmm8191 Posted: Nov 24, 2004 07:24 PM

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Posted by Soon2bMsZ

I think your best bet would be to put ' formal reception to follow'
that should give people the idea.

I think that should work. Unfortunately you might end up with under dressed guest but my friend had a black tie (not optional) wedding and people showed up in less than semi formal attire. You can't win. Good news is you'll probably be too wrapped up to notice.