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Black tie question

PapayaChic Posted:

Black tie question

So Ive been searching the board and I still cant come up with an appropriate answer.

Would it be wrong if I wrote 'black tie invited' on my invites if my wedding is a Friday night not Saturday wedding?

I will also not have a band, but a multicultural DJ, Frank sinatra singer during dinner(1/2 hour), and possibly Ecuadorian band to sing culturally ecaudorian songs for 20 minutes.

Will my guests be annoyed that it says black tie invited for a Friday night wedding with no band?
Nina Posted:

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No......I'm not having a band and I'm putting Black Tie Preferred on mine
MNM7to7 Posted:

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You can do whatever you want, it's your wedding! And I dont think people should be annoyed - I think Black Tie should be expected at any wedding unless otherwise stated.

Jayla127 Posted:

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After a certain time of day, it would be consider a formal (black tie). I don't think you should have a problem with that. My girlfriend got married at 6:30p.m. and stated formal affair on her invites.

snydl40 Posted:

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If the guests get mad-they shouldn't be coming. This is your wedding and it is up to you on how you want your wedding to go.

PapayaChic Posted:

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Thanks chicas!!!

BillyMelissa17 Posted:

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Im putting Black tie perferred, but you can also put formal attire required.

mrsh2b Posted:

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imo, and that's all it is really, i'm just being totally honest, if i received a black tie optional invitation, i would expect a band or live music on a saturday night at an upscale venue. but i can be kind of old school like that. if it's important to you, do it.

bellaro782 Posted:

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Posted by Nina

No......I'm not having a band and I'm putting Black Tie Preferred on mine



Ya im not having a DJ & I will prob put the same

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