So, my sister is my MOH and she has been trying really hard to get all of my girls together for the planning of the shower and bachelorette party. I know that I shouldn't know what's going on, but she is beyond frustrated and now so am I. She called all them about two weeks ago and made plans for this passed Wed for all of them to meet. They all say yes. On Wed one of my BM's calls her and says sorry we can't make it, we have plans for a birthday that we forgot about. it So my sisiter tells me this b/c she is upset w/ them. She said this is not the first time the same 4 BM's have done this. And to add fuel to the fire I know that they did not have plans for a birthday on Wed b/c we all went out on Thurs night. Should I approach these BM's or should I let my sister handle it. I am soooooo frustrated w/ them for lying I could scream. Not only this but I go out of my way all the time for them and this is how they treat me and my sister?? What do you think.
Happybride2005
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r your bm;s helping with anything? if they aren't, i would try to bring it up to them
sunshine1813
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So far the 4 that have bailed evrytime have done nothing.
mskittynj
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I feel your pain because I went through the same thing. I got involved! I don't care, I do more than enough for all my girls and I thought it was beyond F***** up that some of them were slacking....I would say something to them. Tell them you're hurt and they need to call your sister to make plans! XOXOXO Kitty
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I would bring it up to them. Don't rat your sister out as the one who told you about them, just let them know that it was brought to your attention. Let them know that you don't expect your wedding to be the central focus in there lives but to at least give it some of their time considering the fact that they agreed to be BM's. Sorry you have to go thru this. It definitely suucks!
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Posted by sunshine1813
So far the 4 that have bailed evrytime have done nothing.
since they've bailed e ach time, i would talk with them
AlmostKulak
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I would tell them that they need to accept the responsibility that comes with being a BM and you are not happy with the way they have been, good luck
Bailey07
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Replace them if you can
PegaLega
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I would bring it up to them definitely, I would tell them you appreciate them as friends and really want them to be a part of your day, but them making life complicated for your sister isnt fair.
GOod Luck, I hope it all works out for you and they get their butts in gear!!
