Bm dilema... I think.........
I have been friends with Lisa since we were 3yrs old and my mom and her mom have known each other since jr. high! They lost touch and refound themselves while Lisa and I were in pre kindergarten. Now we are both 31 and have been thru a lot together- her dad passed , and my both parents have passed. We have always remained close. She is single and is not dating anyone seriously, which I am sure is bothering her. Back in the fall, I wanted to bring her to the store to try on BM dresses just to see if the one I liked looked good on her, and of course it did, she has like a flawless body. (UGH!) anyway,it took us months to get her to get together with me on a date to look at the dresses, it felt like it was on her terms,(I am a very laid back person and so is FH) we were literally playing phone tag, I had posted about this problem , now she has been playing phone tag with me all over again, since February!!! Well, to make a long story short, she calls me when she knows I am not home, or making dinner, etc. I have responsibilities-I am trying to clean out my parents home to make it my own, FH is trying to officially move in , I am planning a wedding without my mom and dad, etc. She leaves this nasty message on my machine last night about how I am impossible to get in touch with and when she does get me, I am very busy - I try to talk to her, it is all about her, and I cannot get in a word edge wise. I am starting to regret asking her to be in the wedding, any advice?
PS No one else seems to have this problem with getting in touch with me. ![]()