BM Dilemma

Ok... I need some advice...

I have a few friends that I have been very close with for two years now. We work together, go out all of the time, do stuff on weekends, the typical stuff... but they are all of my co-workers. I have been very wrapped up in work and moved away from my home so I lost contact with a lot of my friends.

I don't know if I should ask these girls. My mom also brought up that it is can be an expense for people who don't have the money and we are all teachers.

I don't have any other people to ask... my family (cousins, etc.) are all much younger. MY FH asked 5 people already.

I don't know what to do and because I don't have much time I am getting super stressed out.

Any advice would be great!

TIA!

I would just ask, the worse they can say is no. Just keep in mind you don't need an entourage. IMO the smaller the BP the better. I had 7 and now I'm down to 5 and I'm happy with it. things will be less hectic to organize during rehearsal and now I have less thank you gifts to buy. lol


Good Luck!

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Posted by pandafish519

if these girls are important to you i would ask them. a friend of mine knew i had some financial stress so told me that if it would be too much to let her know. esp. with the economy the way it is, i'm sure the girls will let you know. hth..

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ITA. If they are people you would love to have in your BP, ask. If they say yes, great! If not, oh well- I am sure they will mostly say yes though!

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Posted by pandafish519

if these girls are important to you i would ask them. a friend of mine knew i had some financial stress so told me that if it would be too much to let her know. esp. with the economy the way it is, i'm sure the girls will let you know. hth..

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I agree. When I asked my BM's I told them I would not expect them to buy the most expensive dress and that I would work with what they could afford. You consider these girls real friends, so ask them and see what they say.