BM drama

OK so I have been sick with Broncitis since thursday. And on thursday was one of my BM fitting. Now she made it later in the night so I can go with her. And she said she wanted me there and I wanted to go also. SO I had to go to macys. The apointment was for 7:30. So I leave my house and I wa son my way and I called to let he know I was in traffic and she tells me she is already in the dress and getting fitted. So I was a little mad she didn't even call and see where I was or wait. So ok. So I continue and she calls me back like 5 min later and says the lady is all done. Now I am still 20 min or more away. So She said Oh I can stay in the dress a few min. So I said well are you willing to wait around 20 or more min? So she said no. So I was pissed cause here I am really sick and Trying to get there and she couldn't even wait for me. So I turn around and go home and on my way home she calls me back and says oh the seamstress wanted me to go back to my car and get my shoes so she can do the hem so You can still come back. Meawhile I am almost home. You couldn't tell me this before. Then she leaves me another message saying that she asked them to see my sisters Bridal Gown!!! How messed up is that!!!

ETA:Also this is the same girl who I told not to go pick up my swatches and did.

Sounds like a lot of miscommunication, which when you're sick....*****! She really should've waited for you since that was the original plan or called you and told you to stay in bed and rest. Hope you are feeling better

UGGH!!!! All that with a cold, would drive me insane too!

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Posted by jeanyus27

...and why did she want to see your sisters bridal gown?!!!!!!

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She is in my sisters wedding also. And she asked them at maycs to see it and they showed it to her!!! My sister was fuming!! She has some nerve asking to see it. And Macy's was wrong for showing it!!

wow that is frustrating honestly I probably would have lost my patience in the moment but at this point you know what I have learned situations like that are not even worth it is this the same bm you posted about a few weeks ago? if so it kind of sounds like it is just her personality you most likely know her better than anyone if she is your bm I know it is easier said than done but try not to let it get to you- and feel better!

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Posted by mariaobride

wow that is frustrating honestly I probably would have lost my patience in the moment but at this point you know what I have learned situations like that are not even worth it is this the same bm you posted about a few weeks ago? if so it kind of sounds like it is just her personality you most likely know her better than anyone if she is your bm I know it is easier said than done but try not to let it get to you- and feel better!

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yeah it's the same one from a few weeks ago. And she hasn't always been like this. And she isn't giving my sister a hard time...Yet! I just can't stand it. Cause we talked all day and she knew I was going to meet with her. And she knew how much I wanted to be there.

Sorry you had to deal with that especially while you were sick! Did Macy's show her your sister's dress? That is sooo messed up. If your sister wanted to show her the dress she would have....you don't go behind the bride's back and ask to see it!

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Posted by Princess Cut Bride

Sorry you had to deal with that especially while you were sick! Did Macy's show her your sister's dress? That is sooo messed up. If your sister wanted to show her the dress she would have....you don't go behind the bride's back and ask to see it!

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exactly!!! She was being very sneaky about a few things. So for her to go early like that she had a reason.