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BM dropping like flies

lexi1890 Posted:

BM dropping like flies

So....I have one BM that I sort of regretted asking to be in my wedding from day one and for the past year she has caused a lot of drama and I haven't had the hear to tell her I don't want her in the wedding. So the other day when I told her she had to go and buy her dress....she left me a message stating that she can't afford it and she will not be in the party. I was so happy and relieved.

Now, I get a call from another BM last night and she tells me she is 3 months pregnant and due 2 weeks before the wedding. I was like WHAT!?!? She was afraid to tell me because she wants to be in the wedding but practically speaking she may not physically be able to. So I started with 6 BM and now I may be down to 4.

I don't care that my numbers with guys and girls will be uneven...but its like these are my friends and I wanted them to all stand beside me through this. I love that my one friend is pregnant its just ***** at the same time....just bad timing...well at least in my mind.
Mrs.C 102608 Posted:

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Yea I hear you, I started off with more BM's myself. I had my brother's long time gf in my BP and then one day out of the blue they broke up so she was out, then another one of my BM's who I thought was a close friend turned out not to be a friend at all so she was out. I started off with 7 and I'm down to 5 now. It is definitely disappointing but at least you know the one's that are still in your wedding are the one's that will always be there and stand by you. I know each and every one of my remaining BM's will be in my life and there for me now matter what and that's all that matter's. I want people I am very close to standing by me that day and now that is what I have so I am happy. Don't let it get to you.

Super2star Posted:

Re: BM droping like flies

I think the less the better....I wish I didnt have such a big party...its too much $$ to have alot of girls...

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