So....I have one BM that I sort of regretted asking to be in my wedding from day one and for the past year she has caused a lot of drama and I haven't had the hear to tell her I don't want her in the wedding. So the other day when I told her she had to go and buy her dress....she left me a message stating that she can't afford it and she will not be in the party. I was so happy and relieved.
Now, I get a call from another BM last night and she tells me she is 3 months pregnant and due 2 weeks before the wedding. I was like WHAT!?!? She was afraid to tell me because she wants to be in the wedding but practically speaking she may not physically be able to. So I started with 6 BM and now I may be down to 4.
I don't care that my numbers with guys and girls will be uneven...but its like these are my friends and I wanted them to all stand beside me through this. I love that my one friend is pregnant its just ***** at the same time....just bad timing...well at least in my mind.
update- sorry this posted twice...computer is not working right tonight.
SugaBeans
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Re: BM droping like flies
oh boy!!! not very good timing! but like you said, you want to be happy for you friend anyway.