Ok as I mentioned earlier, since my mom is paying for the BM dresses... 240-260 dollars depending on their sizes. (18+ sizes are more)... each. Im thinking of asking my bridesmaids, if they can just pay for their alterations.. Also, I feel really bad that my mom is shelling out so much, I told her not to and its too much and if she wants, than just pay for half, but she said noo... I thought maybe, I can pay the other half, of the BM dresses and that would be my gift, instead of getting them gifts... is that bad?? I mean I should be spending 130 dollars or so If I went half..and I think that buying a gift in addition to having their dresses paid for is too much ... I dont have the money loll. So like maybe just getting a card and writing something personal in there and ... I dunno... any ideas on what I should do ladies?? TIA!!! ALL OPINIONS WELCOMEE!! haha come on!!
GinaMike24
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I think it would be very generous of you to pay half and nice of you to help out your mother. If it is too much for you to pay half then get a less expensive gift. Your mother is willing to pay! It's really up to you and what your budget can do!!
doreen82
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i think if your mother is willing to pay...let the woman pay!! LOL I would suggest getting their day of jewlery.
Jna2010
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if your mom insists on paying then let her crazy girl lololll if youpay for half though i would still get them something small. Otherwise maybe get them a bag and fill it up with goodies?
blondie24
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The thing is, I have 10 bridesmaids!!!! 10! lol plus two flower girls... ugh.... What gift that I can get them thats not to expensive and still nice?
JAAMS
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Posted by Jna2010
if your mom insists on paying then let her crazy girl lololll if youpay for half though i would still get them something small. Otherwise maybe get them a bag and fill it up with goodies?
ITA!
drivwal
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wait why aren't they paying for their own dresses?