I have 10 girls in my bridal party--yes it's huge, I know. One of which was my best friend from middle school. We have grown apart over the past few years, and it has gotten to the point where she's not returning my phone calls--or any of our other friend's calls. This has been going on since before Christmas.
Now she claims that she has 'no true friends'. She did this to herself because she's not calling anyone back, or making an attempt to be any of our friends.
Should I consider NOT having her in the bridal party???
AMGBride2008
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Have you asked her yet to be a BM yet? If you haven't than I would seriously reconsider whether or not you want her in the BP...
FutureMrs.T
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That decision is up to you. If you dont feel as close to her as you used to and she doesnt consider you a 'true' friend, then I would not have her in the wedding....JMO.....
soon2BMrsMcD
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If you feel that you've grown apart, and that the distance will only continue to grow, don't consider her! The last thing you want to do in 10 years is look back at your wedding pics and say...'oh it's her'
truelove5803
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if you already did ask her, I would talk to her about it. if you didn't ask her yet, then I would think about not asking her. You don't know how reliable she might be.
violiz
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Yes I asked her after we got engaged---but when I called to tell her the good news, I left her a message (of course she didnt' call me back) so I called her a few days later and that's how she congratulated us---I had to call her again, she didn't even call back to congratulate us.
I'm just having very mixed feelings, and I don't want to do something I might regret.
maybride75
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well it is your decision and she claims that she has no true friends. well she is pulling a hypicritical move cause she is doing the same thing. if i were you i would reconsider oplus the fact that she isnt returning your caklls isnt good either
