BM issue
Okay there is this other unmarried couple that my FH and I are good friends with. We will call them Jane and Steve. We were very close to the both so we of course asked them both to be in the BP. The accepted and things seemed great.
Well Jane and Steve are starting to have problems and we know they are going to be breaking up soon. Jane wants to join the army to pay for her student loan, and because Steve isn't very active career wise, she is starting to break away. She'll most likely either break up right before going to bootcamp, or just send him a dear john. We are all seeing this coming. But now I'm starting not to like jane much. I don't dislike her, but she is starting to annoy me. Let me explain.
Steve for her birthday went out of his way to make a surprise B-day party for her at her favorite bar. He got all their friends there, and a cake and everthing. Well Jane suspected that Steve would be doing something like this and she even bragged to us how she tested him, she told him she wanted to go somewhere else than the place he was taking her. The insisiting until he was forced to tell her. She thinks its funny but it really hurts him because of all the time and money he puts into it. (he works a retail and doesn't make a lot, t his party tapped him) and she ruined it.
At my handfasting she was there and got annoyed at joe, because I asked joe to get something out of the car and yes it was easy to find if he looked, but I didn't know was he really had to use the bathroom, he couldn't find and so I went and got it. Jane give him a dirty look and got me upset because I could just feel the negativity in her. She is in the mist of breaking up and she has been talking me into doing the same thing, lightly.
Mind you she doesn't make much sense to me. She spent a whole lot of money to get this degree in business but wants to get married to become a perment house wife. I don't understand that reasoning. Why go all out and spend so much money on school just to stay at home. I see nothing wrong with stay at home moms, or women who have career, but to give up a career she worked very hard to get, just to give it. Its not like a two yr degree, its a major degree that people work very hard to get. So it makes no sense to me. Guys. I still like her as a person, but she is so nasty lately I don't know if I want her in my BP. I really don't like the way she treats steve at all. She'll physically hurt him and if complains, hes the bad guy. I've seen her do it right in front of us. She thinks its funny. Advise? Oh and don't quote this please, because I'm deleting this.
Well Jane and Steve are starting to have problems and we know they are going to be breaking up soon. Jane wants to join the army to pay for her student loan, and because Steve isn't very active career wise, she is starting to break away. She'll most likely either break up right before going to bootcamp, or just send him a dear john. We are all seeing this coming. But now I'm starting not to like jane much. I don't dislike her, but she is starting to annoy me. Let me explain.
Steve for her birthday went out of his way to make a surprise B-day party for her at her favorite bar. He got all their friends there, and a cake and everthing. Well Jane suspected that Steve would be doing something like this and she even bragged to us how she tested him, she told him she wanted to go somewhere else than the place he was taking her. The insisiting until he was forced to tell her. She thinks its funny but it really hurts him because of all the time and money he puts into it. (he works a retail and doesn't make a lot, t his party tapped him) and she ruined it.
At my handfasting she was there and got annoyed at joe, because I asked joe to get something out of the car and yes it was easy to find if he looked, but I didn't know was he really had to use the bathroom, he couldn't find and so I went and got it. Jane give him a dirty look and got me upset because I could just feel the negativity in her. She is in the mist of breaking up and she has been talking me into doing the same thing, lightly.
Mind you she doesn't make much sense to me. She spent a whole lot of money to get this degree in business but wants to get married to become a perment house wife. I don't understand that reasoning. Why go all out and spend so much money on school just to stay at home. I see nothing wrong with stay at home moms, or women who have career, but to give up a career she worked very hard to get, just to give it. Its not like a two yr degree, its a major degree that people work very hard to get. So it makes no sense to me. Guys. I still like her as a person, but she is so nasty lately I don't know if I want her in my BP. I really don't like the way she treats steve at all. She'll physically hurt him and if complains, hes the bad guy. I've seen her do it right in front of us. She thinks its funny. Advise? Oh and don't quote this please, because I'm deleting this.
