BM issues... why am I not stressed???

My sole question is: why am I not stressed about this? lol... I'm assuming because I didn't expect much from her? Or maybe because I know that there's always got to be one disappointing BM --- but relieved that she's not entirely a BM from hell? Or maybe because I have other things to worry about?

I dunno, but I thought that was weird of me.. lol.

Well, believe me, she could certainly be worse!

I think it's good that you're not stressed. Also, your wedding is so close, so you're probably focusing your energies on more important things than her!

You wanna hear something funny? Reading your BM horror stories has actually calmed me about my BM. She's not that bad, more like an angel compared to yours... lolol

one of my BM's told me her husband won't be attending because the two of them, and i quote, 'spent too much' on their vacation - what the ****! this was a few days ago.

i was so pissed. but my mom told me to just 'let it go', seriously, what can one do? nothing. i know some people are irresponsible and lack common courtesy, i just didn't think she would be one of them. however you live and learn...

i'm just so annoyed we gave our final count, paid in full and people are NOW deciding to cancel for various reasons. just $$$$ thrown away!

i took special care in not being too 'demanding' - we are paying for everything for the bridal party (minus overnight accommodations and $100 toward tuxes the groomsmen will now OWN), and all i 'expected' was for people to show up. apparently that is proving to be difficult

we'll all get through it, bridesmaidszillas and all...

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Posted by JacnRob729

wow, thats pretty terrible of her....i would sit down and talk to her face to face, and tell her how stressed out you are because of this

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That's the funny part... I'm not stressed about it.

I WANNA BE JUST LIKE YOU!!!!

I will probably have the BM's neck!!!!!

You are way too calm....making me nervous for you!!!!

Um....did you ask her what she was wating for? Does she not want to do it anymore?

I guess she must not care too much about her appearance.