BM Opinions

Ok... Back again.. lol...
So This is wat i did. As my Bm i have 3 my FH has 4 GM. So My older sis is my MOH then my BF is my Bm and my lil sister. I have another sis but she is 30 something and has 2 kids and lives 2 hours away from me. So i didn't ask her. Because to me she is a here today gone 2 morrow. So my Bf's cousin ask me to be one of my BM. But I do not want her 2 because she is to wild for me. and 2 young.. We just started to talking and stuff.
So I asked a girl that my FH grew up with. I do not know her only meet her once. But she is so nice. and Has respect for herself. and that is the type of women I want to be able to depend on. Am i Wrong? lol.

did you pick this girl that you dont really know JUST to even out your bp? if so then i wouldnt really do that. MANYgirls on here had uneven bp's, i did too. But worked out great and i have seen it at alot of other weddings.

I understand that yes she might be the type of person you like BUT you dont know what she is like when you need to depend on her. I mean look at all the probles girls have with bm's that they are close to, when it came time to be a bm they were shocked bc girls they knew for so many years acted in a way they didnt expect. Plus you just met her once and you cant really see what she is like meeting just once.

A bm should be about those closest to you sharing in your big day bc you all have been through so much together. Not only that but asking your bm's to pay for their dresses, hair, make up, bridal shower , bachelorette party. Are you sure this girl would want to do all that for someone she met once. I dont know if i would do it for someone i met once. BP should be about those whohave been there for you, not picking somebody that has respect for themselves.

I mean its your decision in the end but if its bc an uneven bp, i would just let it be. I had 9 girls and 11 guys