Are you paying for your BM's hair or makeup? If not, are you requiring they wear their hair a certain way or leaving it up to them?
Just wondering what the norm is
WedHead
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I'm not paying for it and not requiring anything other than the other girls allowing my MOH to wear her hair up, and theirs down.
hocus
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I am paying, and they can wear their hair anyway, I just want it to look nice.
I think a lot of people feel that you should pay (or at least offer) if you are requiring the maids to have a specific hair style.
If the style is optional the girls pay for themselves.
Danielle2207
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I gave my BM's the option. They can wear their hair anyway they want. They can do it themselves if they want. I am not paying for their hair if they get it done, I will however tip for them. Same with the makeup.
David'sbride
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I only have a MOH. She has fairly short hair so really no options of different styles. I am paying for her hair and makeup the morning of at the house.
JMHO but I think if a bride requires a certain hair style, etc. than she should pick up at least part of the cost. Travel, dresses, shower, engagement gifts, bachelorette party expenses all add up to a lot for people.
pinkstar025
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i said they could do whatever they want........i could care less
conigs25
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Im not paying and i couldnt care less what they do w/ their hair and m/u. They are adults. They know what looks best on them and what is most comfortable
jimmysgrl
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Posted by pinkstar025
i said they could do whatever they want........i could care less
Yea, I'm doing the same except paying for my MOH hair. I think the norm is if you want BM to look a certain way, courtesy would be to pay for it
SuzBride
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OK good. I wasn't planning on having my BM wear their hair in any particular fashion, but I also had no plans to pay for their hair/makeup (if they want it done, that is fine, but I don't plan to pay except tip )
july06bride
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i am not paying and i am not requiring they do anything specific with their hair...as long as it looks nice and it will i dont care
