I need advice.....Im having 1 MOH and 3 BM and 2 FG and FH is having 1BM and 3 GM and 2 RB. I have 2 cousins that I haven't spoken to in about 9 years....I haven't spoken to the whole family in that time. Anyway, now the little family fued is over and Im now talking to them again and I dont know if I should ask them to be BMs? We used to be very close before this little family fight and now we're all talking again and its like the way it used to be....what would you do? would you ask them to be BMs even though your FH doesnt have 2 more guys to be GM? I dont like the way it looks w/ 2 girls walking down with one guy.
Please Help?!?!?!?
IrishAli
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I probably wouldn't have them...but plenty of people have uneven parties! I wouldn't let that be my deciding factor
tac30
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I know...thats really not my deciding factor. Its just that I haven't seen them or spoken to them in 9 years....and now they are back in my life. Thats why I was thinking about not having them in it.
legalchef
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I wouldn't. 9 years is a long, long time. They have probably missed most of your relationship with your FH and a lot of other things in your life.
Jennielee15
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I would lean towards not having them but would at least reccomend waiting till closer to the wedding and making sure you are still close with them. As you have seen in the past families can fight for no good reason!!! Don't want it to be drama right before the wedding!
Danielle41209
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I would lean towards not having them but would at least reccomend waiting till closer to the wedding and making sure you are still close with them.
IA
I don't know if I would add them to the BP right away but you can always ask them to read or be hosts. Although you were close before, 9 years is a long time...
rosatemp
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Posted by Danielle41209
Posted by Jennielee15
I would lean towards not having them but would at least reccomend waiting till closer to the wedding and making sure you are still close with them.
IA
I don't know if I would add them to the BP right away but you can always ask them to read or be hosts. Although you were close before, 9 years is a long time...
