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BM Shoes

leighlo1226 Posted:

BM Shoes

Is it rude to make the BMs buy the same shoes if they are under $125? Factor in the cost of dress, hair, MU, etc.

DCgirl82 Posted:

Re: BM Shoes

If you want them to have the same shoes for the wedding then you should do that.

I picked Silver color and I told them they can wear whatever type of silver shoe they want for 2 reasons..

1) They are paying so much already I don't want to add a bigger expense for them

2) Not all girls are able to wear certain shoes.. I have a few girls in my BP that I know would be very uncomfortable in high heels because they don't normally wear them. I just want by BMS to have fun and be comfy on the day of my wedding
HeatherLynna Posted:

Re: BM Shoes

Honestly, I feel a little bad asking them to pay money for all of this stuff. However, I told them that I was going to annoy them with dress, hair, make up, and shoes and then leave them alone!


I think that as long as the shoes are reasonably priced and a pair that they like and may wear again, then it won't be too big of a deal. My bridesmaids were all okay with it, thank God.
Jna2010 Posted:

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are your dresses short? if not, then i honestly wouldnt bother, im just having all my girls wear the same color.... if ur dresses are short, try to find a pair that is under 50, the cheaper the better, chances are theyre not all going to love the shoes so thatll just be one more thing they have to spend money on that collects dust lol

fsil bought all of ours from nine west, they were buy one get one 50% off and gave us all another gift on top of that
LindyBride22 Posted:

Re: BM Shoes

Depends. I agree that if the dresses are short it makes sense to have them all in the same shoes, just try to pick some that theyre happy with and are reasonably priced. If the dresses are long a would personally just pick a color and let them do whatever shoes they want.

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