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bm vent

MrsC2010 Posted:

bm vent

ok i am getting really frustrated!!

end of july i went BM dress shopping...i have nine girls and only 4 could go which was fine bc some are OOT. So the 4 girls that went found a dress we love, got measured and put down a deposit.

we went a little early bc my sister is preggers and i wanted to go b4 she got too big so she could still try on some dresses...so i told the other girls you have until October 1st to get your measurements and put in a deposit! 3 of the girls 5 remaining girls went within the next few weeks.

Now tomorrow is Oct. 1st and 2 girls still have yet to go. I have tried not to be pushy so i let it go but a few weeks ago I sent a reminder and they both said oh Ill go this week etc etc....but they haven't. I just sent messages to both today and they havent responded.

Im so annoyed. They had over 2 mths to do this...its like frustrating bc it makes me feel like they dont care about being in the wedding ya know.

sorry just had to vent.
christine2010 Posted:

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i have been dealing with a similar situation with my bridesmaids. i already told FH that i can't wait until they get married so that if i am a bridesmaid i am going to make their life's living hell.

its so frustrating that no one wants to give an inch.
mrsdraskin2009 Posted:

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Yeah thats crappy I can't even get anyone to commit to looking at them
JAAMS Posted:

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ugh i'm so sorry


honestly, i don't get why people say 'yes' to being a BM if they aren't going to do diddly squat
StaceyWill Posted:

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Posted by JAAMS

ugh i'm so sorry


honestly, i don't get why people say 'yes' to being a BM if they aren't going to do diddly squat



ITA!!!
jcreilly Posted:

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Im sorry I had the same issues but I gave them a dead line of a month before I wanted it order, the last 2 girls to go one of my sister which Im paying for her dress and the next day my friend who got into a bad finacially way this summer so I paid for her deposit! She felt really bad but I could not have her in my Bp she has been such a great friend these past 10 years to me ( and her father deals with diamonds and fh bought the diamond thur him and he didnt make a profit off it so I own them lol fh was very lucky) I would call them up and ask them if they are planning to go and found out the story!
Oh and my Bm dress which should have taken 8-12 weeks came in 6 I was shocked and happy, The girls started their fittings inJanuary

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