BM VENT!!!!!

Ok, so I am one of my cousins two MOH's for her wedding this July. So far, all the other MOH has done is cause drama. She told my cousin and her FH- 'These are the only 3 weekends you can get married b/c of my schedule, and I live in GA' (she is FH sister). She b!tched about alllll of the shower planning- finances, theme, gift, etc. I can't even get into the details b/c 5 months later it still makes me livid- suffice it to say I spent over $750 on my cousins shower b/c her other MOH is a P.O.S.

NOW- last night I get an IM from this girl (note: we are NOT friends, we do not get along, we do not talk unless it involves planning stuff for my cousin)

Her:'Hey, when are you getting married?'
Me: 'October 2011'
Her: 'When?'
Me: 'October 8th, 2011'
Her: 'My FH and I just picked that date too! How funny!'

UMM- WFT?!?! We set our date back in July 2009- it has not changed, she knew my date AND my cousin is supposed to be MOH for BOTH of us!!!!!

They have only been dating since Oct 2nd, 2009- we set our effing date before you guys had even met!!!!!!!!!!

I could not even give her a response other than 'Wow, weird' because A) she was looking for drama and B) the things I would have said to this girl would probably get me arrested

Apparently the day before, she had texted my cousin to tell her about the date, and my cousin never responded so because she didn't get the response she wanted and cause the drama she wanted, she felt the next best option was to rile me up. She does NOT know who she is messing with- 2 can play at this game!!!


UGHHHHHH!!!! Sorry so long- HAD to get that out. Kudos to those of you who made it to the end!!!

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Posted by sjr385

Seriously?!?! I feel bad for her FH You responded perfectly. I know it's hard, but just ignore her. She's not worth your time or energy. And send out your STDs before her!

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I agree - you responded great! so much class! Dont let her get the best of you! You will get through it! and after your cousin's wedding you wont have to be dealing with her as much!

and your cousin already committed to being a Moh in your wedding, so like someone else said - jokes on her!

That's crazy!!!! That chick sounds insane!! I wouldn't let it get to you, I'm sure your cousin is going to come to your wedding so you win! But that's still really nervey of her!

OMG wat a crazy chick Who does that?? ughh
Wat did you cousin say to that did she tell her that she is already committed to your wedding??

are you effin kidding me? what a biach! well, whats your cousin going to do? she's sorta stuck there huh? she's already committed to your wedding and you've been planning a while so I'm assuming it's cya...wouldn't wanna be ya!

other than your cousin, will this affect anyone else not coming?

Eww. She s ucks. Good thing you limit contact with her because she sounds toxic!

W T H would someone want to add more drama and stress during wedding planning? She is a nut and your response was perfect.

Sorry

Holy S**T Ballz that b*tch is out of her mind!!!!!

I seriously don't understand people's reasonings for doing stuff like this to other people.

But I am glad you were more mature than this C U Next Tuesday to respond the way you did. And like the other girls said, your cousin has already committed to be your MOH, so the joke's on her.

Thanks girls

I guess I failed to mention this is her FSIL- UGH!

But I talked to my cousin last night and she said that if it comes down to it, she is already committed to me, and will be there. It will be hard on her FH though, since him and I are very close (he's pretty much been a member of the family for over 10 years), but the crazy chick is his sister- she said he would have to go to hers, even though in his heart he'd rather be at our wedding.

My cousin thinks she is just doing this to stir drama up, not because she is actually going to pick that date. Luckily literally the only overlap is my cousin and her FH though. Still, biatch is makin me crazy! I did not need this during finals week!!!!

This girl thinks she can plan a wedding from Georgia in 16 months and that it's going to cost them under $10,000. Oh did i mention she wants to have it at like Oheka- girl is bat-sh!t insane!!!!

I definitely feel better after talking to my cousin last night though!

you got you MOH, ***** her FH can't come,

but this chic is probably just trying to stir up drama, so keep on keeping on.

your response was perfect. she is just being evil.

**sigh** sometimes people just S u C k

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Posted by SUbride10_08_11

Thanks girls

I guess I failed to mention this is her FSIL- UGH!

But I talked to my cousin last night and she said that if it comes down to it, she is already committed to me, and will be there. It will be hard on her FH though, since him and I are very close (he's pretty much been a member of the family for over 10 years), but the crazy chick is his sister- she said he would have to go to hers, even though in his heart he'd rather be at our wedding.

My cousin thinks she is just doing this to stir drama up, not because she is actually going to pick that date. Luckily literally the only overlap is my cousin and her FH though. Still, biatch is makin me crazy! I did not need this during finals week!!!!

This girl thinks she can plan a wedding from Georgia in 16 months and that it's going to cost them under $10,000. Oh did i mention she wants to have it at like Oheka- girl is bat-sh!t insane!!!!

I definitely feel better after talking to my cousin last night though!

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dont worry honey god doesnt like ugly!! karma will bite her in the *** NOTHING WILL WORK OUT FOR HER