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BM vent- we all love them-long

jcreilly Posted:

BM vent- we all love them-long

So I just notice that at 9am this morning one of my BM sent me a message, saying she needs to sw me in person sometime this week *** so I text her to call and I ask if everything is okay she said NO would like to meet in person so fine I will meet up with her at 6:30 tonight but I assume she is backing out!! I text my bf she said but we have already paid for half the dress! Which they did my wedding is in 3 months the dress came in over a month ago, I have already taken them out for a bridesmaid lunch bought the bm gifts- which are coach bags. I also order there flowers
I called my mom and sister just to see if there was any drama with a shower ( which I think my aunt is paying for) I didn't come out and ask but they where shocked SO was my best friend, her best friend is alsomy bridal party fh does not know anything so I am so annoyed and I am almost positive she is backing out, and I think she will want me to replace a Bm so she can get the deposit back! but I don't have anyone my mother said maybe my brother girlfriend who I do love and she always at my house so knows what's going on and she would most lily fit in the dress I would just have to pay for the dress because she broke only 21 and she also friends with my younger sister, I just wanna make sure it would be fine with my bother! I am just so mad she would do this 3 months before my wedding



Oh I willfeel really bad if something horrible is wrong
Thanks
sugarnspice Posted:

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breathe.....

you have no idea what she wants to tell you. take it one step at a time
DaniandKen2010 Posted:

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Don't think the worst. Maybe its something else. Maybe she is tight with money or such and just needs your help.

AngnShaun Posted:

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that suspense would be killing me too... way to many bad scenarios running through your mind... obviousy you want to have some sort of expectation because you might have to make some changes... so sorry you have to deal with this now... obviously 3 months before is not really cool to back out... hopefully its not as bad as you think..
jcreilly Posted:

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Posted by AngnShaun

that suspense would be killing me too... way to many bad scenarios running through your mind... obviousy you want to have some sort of expectation because you might have to make some changes... so sorry you have to deal with this now... obviously 3 months before is not really cool to back out... hopefully its not as bad as you think..



Not knowing riht now is killing me!! my poor coworker also had to listen to me for about an hour of complaing!
Im_My_Own_Princess Posted:

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just breathe...
maybe she has GOOD news!!!
maybe she's preggo or engaged or dating someone (not sure of her situation) or maybe she got a promotion at work or something.. and wants to see your face when you find out.
jcreilly Posted:

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Posted by Im_My_Own_Princess

just breathe...
maybe she has GOOD news!!!
maybe she's preggo or engaged or dating someone (not sure of her situation) or maybe she got a promotion at work or something.. and wants to see your face when you find out.


she is single and not dating anyone the tone in her voice didn't sound good
sugarnspice Posted:

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MrsHazel2B Posted:

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the suspense would drive me nuts too...but take it easy, it could be good!

Golden Posted:

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I agree that you should just breathe and wait till tonight. Don't jump to any conclusions, if in deed she is backing out, tell her how you feel and be done with it, but just take it one step at a time...Hope all goes well tonight

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