BM/MOH Question

If I only have 3 BMs is it really weird if 2 of them are co-MOH and one is Matron of Honor? Any opinions are welcome. Thanks!

ETA: So, the thing is I would actually have ALL 3 girls in MOH-type positions and none would be *just* a BM.

I dont think its weird at all

nope, it is not weird at all

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Posted by jenniesunshine

If I only have 3 BMs is it really weird if 2 of them are co-MOH and one is Matron of Honor? Any opinions are welcome. Thanks!

ETA: So, the thing is I would actually have ALL 3 girls in MOH-type positions and none would be *just* a BM.

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Honestly- you can do whatever the hell you want.. Or you can just call them all BMs and since there is only three of them- it's obvious that they are of 'importance'

Thanks for all your responses. I suppose I should explain the situation a little further so you understand why I'm asking these questions after being engaged for over a year.

There has been some serious drama with my original MOH. We used to be great friends but she has changed a lot in the past year and we went through a lengthy period where she was not putting any effort into our friendship. After trying several times to remedy the situation, I finally told her that I don't think we should be friends anymore and I don't want her to be MOH.

Now I have 2 girls who I am incredibly close with still left as my BMs. I also have another girl who I originally didn't ask because in my newbie stage (don't laugh) I didn't realize married women could be BMs Also, FH limited me to 3 BMs because he only wanted 3 GMs. Now, I can ask her to be a BM, which is great because she's been so super supportive of me in every aspect of my life.

So, rather than have any one of the girls be a MOH and feel like she's the replacement, I thought I should make them all MOH. I thought about just having all BMs because like Randi said, there are only 3 so obviously they're all special, but I just wondered how they would divide up the traditional MOH duties? All this drama just went down yesterday, so if it's not obvious, I'm a little unsure of how to proceed. Thanks again for your help!