BM's

mcbride62009 Posted: Aug 20, 2007 10:02 PM

BM's

My MOH's are driving me crazy! They want to do everything thier way and I am going to go CRAZY! Any advice?

FuTuRe MrS MaZz Posted: Aug 20, 2007 10:06 PM

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Well, first off... Welcome to the 09 boards... Why havent you posted on here sooner

The wedding is 2 yrs away... There is no need to have their involvement right now in my opinion... If you are having probs with them, speak to them about it nicely and if they still cannot control themselves, just do not tell them anything about the wedding anymore... or at least for a while until all the major stuff is done

little34 Posted: Aug 20, 2007 10:12 PM

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I think it is a good thing that your MOH is involved..many times they are not... but just sit them down and let them know that you appreciate their enthusiasm but you need to ok everything and you are looking for xyz.... they'll understand and if not get angry!!!

lookitscassie Posted: Aug 20, 2007 10:30 PM

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welcome :)

and tell them to chill. its YOUR wedding

dazies1011 Posted: Aug 20, 2007 11:03 PM

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Posted by lookitscassie

welcome :)

and tell them to chill. its YOUR wedding

I sooo agree and welcome!!!! and congrats!

Jayla127 Posted: Aug 20, 2007 11:47 PM

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Welcome to the Addiction!! We are all recovering addicts. Happy Planning!!

I agree with all the girls, tell your MOh to be still.

MRSin2009 Posted: Aug 24, 2007 09:07 AM

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Maybe you should just talk to them and say you have plenty of time and you would love there help a year from now when the stress builds up even more. Good luck!

little34 Posted: Aug 24, 2007 09:15 AM

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Yell at them and tell them that you are happy that they are excited but things need to be cleared by you first. good luck

Summertimegal424 Posted: Aug 24, 2007 06:46 PM

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woah tell them to chill, thats why im so glad i didn't make it official w/ the bridesmaid, i asked the moh but thats gonna change!

BlushingBride09 Posted: Aug 24, 2007 07:07 PM

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What good is having a MOH if all she does is drive you crazy...You have almost 2 years....tell her to calm it or she'll be replaced.

Is she married? If not, tell her to start planning her own wedding.

Just my opnion. I can't stand when people make me nuts.

Good Luck.

LnF0405 Posted: Aug 24, 2007 10:55 PM

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Just make them sign a contract with your terms that is what I did with mine just yesterday

NYMetsBride Posted: Aug 24, 2007 10:59 PM

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Definitely welcome to the addiction!!!! As far as your MOH involvement, its your wedding so YOU can do whatever you want. But still consider their opinion and ideas. Good luck and definitely have fun planning.

HotAir Posted: Aug 24, 2007 11:03 PM

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Welcome

What is it that your MOH wants her way?

BlushingBride09 Posted: Aug 25, 2007 10:05 AM

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Posted by loy0405

Just make them sign a contract with your terms that is what I did with mine just yesterday

A contract? What do you mean? They went for that?

LnF0405 Posted: Aug 25, 2007 10:09 AM

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Posted by BlushingBride09

Posted by loy0405

Just make them sign a contract with your terms that is what I did with mine just yesterday

A contract? What do you mean? They went for that?

yeap I did it as a joke but they signed with no problem (after I explain why I put some stuff)
In this threat you can see what It said.

contract

mcbride62009 Posted: Aug 29, 2007 07:33 PM

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Hey guys, thanks for all your input. As for a contract I don't understand what you mean. I tried to open the site but it wouldn't open. I love her to death and shes really good at this stuff I think I was just stressing about things I shouldn't have and wont anymore.

Send me some examples of a contract please.

Ms SunnShinne Posted: Aug 29, 2007 07:36 PM

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LOL they are too excited!!! Just tell her to calm down! The contract is just a silly lil spoof to get them to sign to adhere to their responsibilities!