I have a six girl bridal party and three of my girls have gone and gotten measured for their dress, A MONTH AGO. Now the place where we ordered from is saying that the other three are no shows and the girls that ordered are afraid that they'll have to pay rush fees. I've called and called the girls and they keep giving me the run around. Right now I just want to drop them from the party! The sticky part is they are my FH's sisters and I can't do that to them. I just don't know how to get them to go and get measured with or without me. Any suggestions?????
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Can FH talk to them? I would tell them that if they don't get measured soon there are going to be rush fees and have them pay for the other girls' rush fees who got measured on time.
Mooshyboo
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Hi I would let your FH call them and let them know if they don't order by this friday all the BM are going to be charged rush fees.... you are getting married in may and all the bm are going to have to rush around for fitting etc... good luck!
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i had all my girls go together...w/me one night that was good for everyone. since they are fh sisters i would say something to fh and let him no its now or never to order these dresses. maybe they will listen to him and know that you mean business.
jus and james
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I would def. go through FH. And if they don't go on time I would make them pay for the other girls' rush fees, because it's not fair to your other bridesmaids.
snydl40
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I would give them a date, and if they don't get measured by then, order the other dresses.
madseason
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I agree... Get FH involved and have him relay to them, either order them by x date, or the dresses are being ordered without them,and they are not involved! You dont need the stress!!!
tricia3381
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tell them they need to order by X date in order for the dresses to be on time for the wedding. if they don't then they won't be able to be in the BP. what about talking to FMIL?
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I just went thru kind of the same thing! Tell FH to tell them if they dont go and get it done you are going to ok the order going out which means they are out...tell him you cant wait on them-either they want to be a part of it or they dont. Stand your ground on it
Elise&Matt
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omg u need some I would have Fh talk to them and light the fire under their arse!!!
cantwait84
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i had the same problem with one of my bm's i finally gave her a deadline. i told that if she didnt order it by then the dresses would be orderedwith out her and she would have to try to order seperatly. she finally did it :)
Kimbalina
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Have FH talk with them and if they dont do it by this weekend,,,, drop them, or have them split ALL the rush fees
SReidy
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First, I would suggest that FH talk to them. If they're 'Too busy' to go then can they measure eachother or can you measure them? I had a similiar situation with my friend that is getting married in the city- and I'm on the North Fork so it wasn't exactly easy for me to get there..... I ended up just measuring myself and getting my dress out this way (which she was fine with). But if you want them to all order together I would google how to measure (if none of them know)- but make sure they don't measure THEMSELVES - they should measure eachother. Their measurements can get screwed up if they measure themselves. HTH!
