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grrulz Posted:

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so I am thinking of doing this as crazy as it may sound but i want to hit the gym first. But i have a question about this? do you let FH know you are doing this? or is this a surprise?? what do you girls think?? Also I need to go and shop for some cool lingerie hehe

rocketsummer17 Posted:

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i will be doing it about 6 months prior to the wedding and give it to him before his bachelor party, kinda as a 'look what you have waiting when you get home'. It is going to be a surprise and yes, i will be working out like a maniac before hand to look good!!!

Dazzlin217 Posted:

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if i end up doing it i am definitely not telling FH it will be a total surprise. i dnt want him to know at all. and i will defintely need to go to the gym and tone up!

kater08 Posted:

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i think i might do it a couple of months after the wedding (when i'll hopefully be thinner...) and then give to him for our first anniversary...since its supposed to be a 'paper' gift...and a photo album is paper!!

stinenandy2010 Posted:

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Posted by Dazzlin217

if i end up doing it i am definitely not telling FH it will be a total surprise. i dnt want him to know at all. and i will defintely need to go to the gym and tone up!



how did your meeting go last night with Hidden Pixels???

And I would totally do it as a surprise. I want to see the look on his face when I hand over the album, he will totally not be expecting it.
grrulz Posted:

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if you know any quotes ladies please let me know to see if i can even afford this lol you can FM me or post it whatever is easier thanks

JenBill61210 Posted:

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i would do it but when i mentioned it to FH he called it 'stupid' and a 'waste of money' but i have heard really great things about hidden pixels
RitasEngaged Posted:

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I definately want to do it and it will be a surprise.

JoanneAndJustin Posted:

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I am going to do it too. Give it to him the day before the wedding. I just need to get my $h!t together.

T E R I Posted:

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It would be a total surprise for FH, even if i told him i was going to do it i don't think he would believe me. I definitely need the gym for the next year though

bkbaby4life Posted:

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do guys know about the boudoir tradition thing? i've never heard of it before this site and i KNOW FH def never heard of it.

are you FH's in the know? do they kind of expect it?
grrulz Posted:

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fh doesn't expect it i just want to do it to surprise him! i think it would be nice to do it for him

T E R I Posted:

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Fh doesn't expect it and i doubt he even knows about it

he would never expect it from me
vnv126 Posted:

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Hey ladies,

09er here....I just did mine 2 weeks ago with my wedding photographer, Amanda Picone. Her prices is $325 (including location of a place) and it's approximately 2-3 hours shoot.

Here is the list of Boudoir Photographers. check them out:

Blue Daisy $500
Fedali $500
Claudia www.fabuluxephotos.com charge $99.00 for 45 minute session and $425 for 3 hr session
Dana Jones Lee $375.00
Brandi Grooms Photography $350.00
Amanda Picone $325.00

Hope this is helpful! Need more info FM me.
SummerBride10 Posted:

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I'm debating it...the whole thing seems a little awkward to me.

It's like, here are some sexy pics of me. Then what does he do with them??

I think I might just give him the real me...in person...no pics.
Sandradv121 Posted:

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Which ones are the reliable ones and which ones are on Long Island? I am interested, but I need to do it in a VERY sophisicated way ( I'm thinking Italian Starlet) and I can not have any men taking these pics (Because my fiance will FLIP). I want to take them one weekend when my fiance goes upstate, but I am really a little nervous lol. If anyone knows of any Long Island ones please FM me. :)

T E R I Posted:

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i think most of them are in the city, except for Hidden Pixels they are on Long Island and all the photographers listed are women

FutureMrs.M Posted:

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Posted by kater08

i think i might do it a couple of months after the wedding (when i'll hopefully be thinner...) and then give to him for our first anniversary...since its supposed to be a 'paper' gift...and a photo album is paper!!



thats a really good point...im just worried like someone else mentioned (I think Colleen) im gonna give him these pictures and then what do we do with them...its a lot of money! I might just do it myself...lol I bet my MOH wouldnt mind helping
Prada3721 Posted:

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I'm definitely going to do it, I'm really excited -- of course I totally need to hit the gym.

I think it will be an amazing surprise for my FH. I'll give him the album as a gift. But I don't think I could wait until first anniversary -- we suck @ keeping secrets from each other -- so I know I wouldn't hold out that long.

I want him to have it to see how amazing I look and I want to be able to look back and be like WOW I was HOTTT!! LOL.

Plus several of my girlfriends have done it and they really enjoyed the photo session and felt amazingly empowered and sexy throughout the entire thing and they said their FH's loved the gift more than they even expected. Which was another awesome feeling.

Also some of the other ladies in the '08 and some '09 brides have mentioned how much the loved it and the reactions from their FH's.

I'm self concious about certain parts of my body but (1) I know he doesn't care about them like I do and (2) if it's a good fotog we can go around those areas or I just have to bring the right types of outfits! And there is always photoshop! LOL
MrsC2010 Posted:

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FH jokingly asked if I was planning on doing them....which I hadn't originally planned. We made a pact that if I get down to my goal weight then I will do them for him.

we'll see how it goes:)

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