Hey ladies, so FH doesn't like flowers at all. He didn't wear a boutonniere for our prom and he really does not want to wear one for the wedding. I know if I ask him to he would wear it, but I really don't mind if he or any of the GM's don't wear them.
Do you think it would look bad if they didn't wear boutonnieres?
stinenandy2010
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why not do something else...like i've seen little branches or something to suit their personalities, like recently someone posted a picture with a little tennis racket since the gm was a huge tennis player....or maybe i saw that in a magazine.
T E R I
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As of now FH says he's not wearing one either and I'm ok with that, our florist is throwing them in as a just in case type of thing if he changes his mind. I could care less if FH wears one or not
Rosalind_75
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i dont think it would look weird. guys look great in suits and tuxedos as is
jmo
Jen2525
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Posted by stinenandy2010
why not do something else...like i've seen little branches or something to suit their personalities, like recently someone posted a picture with a little tennis racket since the gm was a huge tennis player....or maybe i saw that in a magazine.
ITA it doesn't have to be flowers, here are some examples......
not weird at all. i think they get crushed when people hug you and stuff. ill let FH decide for himself if he wants to wear one but i won't push if he doesn't.
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FH doesn't want to wear one either. Since yellow is one of our colors, we are going to have a yellow handkerchief folded in all of the guys' front jacket pockets :).
jme78
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If he really doesn't like flowers, don't make him do it.
Its not a big deal at all if guys dont wear bouts.
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Posted by Rosalind_75
i dont think it would look weird. guys look great in suits and tuxedos as is
jmo
I agree. And I've heard they do get crushed once someone hugs the guy and I really don't want to hug him and have crushed flowers on my dress.
I figured I'm getting so many things I want for the wedding; he should be allowed to decide whether he wants to wear it or not. His sister was making a big deal about it, saying I should make him; but I don't think it's that big of a deal.
Thanks for all your replies ladies.
FallBride2010
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I dont think anyone would notice if he wears one or not
angel1219eyez
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not weird at all....i dont thik FH wants them either...if it was up to me i wouldnt have my girls walk down with flowers..im not a flower person but my mom yelled at me when i told her that lol
JillandJoe
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no, im not a fan of flowers and if I had to wear one that close to my face id be sick all night so If i was the groom i would have vetoed them!!
