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Boy, do I feel better NOW!

Claud2001 Posted:

Boy, do I feel better NOW!

Okay, so the last couple of weeks, Paul has been pulling up on the furniture, standing and walking around the Pack-n-Play, and his crawling is at lightning speed....sooooo, I am thinking that at mealtimes, he should be STARVING from all this activity, right? I mean, WE get really hungry when we are more active than normal, right?

WRONG! He has been eating like a little bird, and I was getting a little concerned...I thought that I was messing up his mealtime habits by introducing solids and tastes of table food too rapidly (which I've been super careful about, so I was feeling so upset).

I was happy to read in my BabyCenter newsletter today that I'm not doing anything wrong at all, and in fact, it's quite normal for Paul to not be so interested in eating right now. What would I do w/o the Internet sometimes? No one tells you these things!!! At our last doctor's visit, she told me she wanting to see him gaining more weight - well, how is he supposed to do that, if he's not interested in eating a full meal??? LOL!!!

Here's an excerpt from the newsletter - I *highly* recommend the BabyCenter website to the Moms and Moms-to-Be....it is an invaluable resource!! AND - they also have a TTC/Pre-conception section too, so check it out!

The problem
It's no coincidence that right around the time your child learns to walk — usually between 9 and 16 months — she becomes much less interested in food. When there's so much to discover, who has time to eat? (Keep in mind, though, that her growth has slowed and, in spite of how active she may be, her energy needs are less.)

What you can do
While your child needs some encouragement and structure when it comes to mealtimes (such as regular meals and healthy choices), William Sears, noted pediatrician and author of 23 books on childcare, says whether, when, and how much your child eats should ultimately be up to her. 'Your child may eat well one day and eat practically nothing the next,' says Dr. Sears, who recently co-authored The Family Nutrition Book (Little Brown, August 1999) with his wife, Martha.
Rather than get hung up on the fact that your child has refused everything you put in front of her today, consider her food intake over the course of one week. Parents are often surprised to find that their child's food intake balances out. Something must be fueling all that energy!

Don't forget to consider fluids in the food equation, too. Milk and juice can offer vital nutrients (though too much juice means too much sugar). But since too much fluid can also dampen an appetite, you may want to serve drinks after and between meals. And try to make sure she's not filling up on junk food. A daily multivitamin also provides added insurance that your child is getting the vitamins and minerals she needs but is not a substitute for good food. And if your toddler refuses to eat or drink anything for an entire day, call your pediatrician.
michele31 Posted:

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My mom told me that she had to put Cherrios in a bowl on the coffee table for me when I was little and I would eat them one by one during the day- and almost nothing else. And now look at me Claud. There is no 'eating like a bird' problem anymore.
Claud2001 Posted:

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Michele - that is TOO CUTE!! Thanks....I know he won't starve....it's just that no one tells you it's normal, you know?
Wendy Posted:

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When my son was a toddler the only things he would eat were Lucky Charms cereal and macaroni and cheese. This went on for about 6 months. I was concerned so I asked my pediatrician what I should do. He said do nothing. He told me that kids will not starve themselves and as long as he was eating something, not to worry. Well my son (my baby) is now almost 20, 6 ft tall and 190 lbs. and eats me out of house and home so I guess the doctor was right.

You will probably go through these phases several times, but believe me....it all works out in the end.


NIHA Posted:

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Awww Claud, I can imagine how concerned you must have been! What a relief. I'm sure he's doing just fine, don't let the Drs scare you.

JustJodi Posted:

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LOL michelle..

That cherio comment reminded me of my younger brother, when he was a baby my parents said that they had to put the cherios on the record player and the only way he would eat is he would take it off everytime it turned and pop it in his mouth..


I learned alot from babycenter claud, they always have great advice. He will have his days when his appetite is better than others.
If hes active enough to be playing around all the time, he must be eating enough.

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