can be so inconsiderate and stupid! When you here 'hey babe I'm working with a friend tonight so let me know when your leaving work and i'll meet you at home.' You expect FH to be home when you are, or at least shortly after. Well I text him at 10:30 'I'm home' He tells me he's waiting for his friend then he will be home. So I fall asleep around 12. 2am I hear the TV on! I could have killed him! then he comes to bed like nothing is wronge smelling like booze! Yeah some work babe! Anyway, this moring I wake him up at 5:30am, 'Honey you over slept your late for work!' 'No, I'm off today'
How hard would it have been for him to say last night, 'Honey I'm off tomorrow so I'm gonna grab a few drinks with the guys, I'll be home late, don't wait up.'
GRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRRR
So annoying! I'm not even mad just frustrated cause I could have gotten so much more sleep!
martea36
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AHHH... This irritates me to no end! Has happened once to me and I flipped out on him because I was so worried he got into a car accident or something!
Richiesgirl
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hate that !! But thank God that has only happened once and I am sure it won't happen again
Jennielee15
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In his defense he was helping a friend work on a bar he is opening in rockville centre. So I'm sure they were just drinking while working. He still could have been more up front about his intensions for the night.
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Posted by Richiesgirl
hate that !! But thank God that has only happened once and I am sure it won't happen again
Once? I wish! He loses track of time all the time. He usually lets me know his plans though.
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my FH is an Ambulance company chief so sometimes he'll be down at the ambulance garage and he'll say he'll be home at a certain time. But then a emergency call will come over and he'll have to go. Obviously i can't be like, 'well dont go!' but he doesnt even tell me he is going on a call and will be out later than expected. Once he didnt get home until 3AM!!
I know it sounds cheesy but i can't fall asleep without him..
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i always get mad at him for doing this!!! He thinks he is avoiding a fight by sayin ok ill be home soon. leaving it very vague, when in all honesty all he has to say is ' i wont be home till late dont wait up.
I wouldnt care if he stayed out but dont tell me you are going to be home when you know your not!
hiswifey2011
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boys boys boys!!! but i thank god i dont have this problem ... my love knows the meaning of a PHONE!!!!
allornil
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ugh mine does that too. then he's all confused as to why i'm mad, hello..its not hard to say, babe...i'm gonna be out for a while w so and so. call ya later.
seriously we fight about 2 things..this and money.
and..if i dont call him when i go out he FLIPS! lol and i never go out.