BP

MrsHazel2B Posted: Aug 13, 2010 11:12 AM

BP

So, how big is your BP? I'm still figuring out whether or not I want certain family members, but I want to keep the numbers small. I'm planning for 5 girls, and 5 guys, not including the FG and RB.

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Aug 13, 2010 11:17 AM

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I'm having the same problem with certain family members and I feel like the BP is a HUGE decision.. these are the people who are going to be with me all day on my big day!

but so far I've only asked my best friend to be my MOH but im planning on keeping it small maybe 4 girls 4 guys RB and FG.

MsMagztobe Posted: Aug 13, 2010 11:21 AM

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Me and Fh only want 5 guys and 5 girls. We are not asking anyone until a year before. Only my sister knows that she is my MOH.

allornil Posted: Aug 13, 2010 11:36 AM

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fyi 5 inst small. wait until you go dress hopping. you'll be banging your head against the wall wondering, :'why did i even want anyone in the bp?'

lol

MrsHazel2B Posted: Aug 13, 2010 11:38 AM

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Posted by allornil

fyi 5 inst small. wait until you go dress hopping. you'll be banging your head against the wall wondering, :'why did i even want anyone in the bp?'

lol

I know! i was supposed to have my wedding in 2010, so I went through this in 2009 with 8 and 8. I was ready to rip my hair out!!! I'm all for letting the girls pick out their own dresses, so long as the colors match, but those girls were nuts!!! Some days, I just ignored my cell phone b/c I knew it would be one of them complaining!!

FutureMrsCat050412 Posted: Aug 13, 2010 11:58 AM

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6 BMs::

1-my sister
2-my sister
3-my sis in law
3-FHs cousin
4-FHs cousin
5-Fhs sis in law

3 FGs::
all 3 of FHs neices

6 GMs::

1-Fhs brother
2- Fhs cousin
3- my brother
4-my brother in law
5- fhs cousin
6-fhs best friend

1 RB::
my cousin

sjr385 Posted: Aug 13, 2010 01:07 PM

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MrsHazel2B Posted: Aug 13, 2010 01:26 PM

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Posted by sjr385

We're doing 3 and 3 -- my sister (MOH), his sister, my brother, his best friend (BM), plus one more friend each. I'm having trouble picking one though...

Keeping it simple...

FutureMrsGTL Posted: Aug 13, 2010 02:47 PM

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Posted by sjr385

We're doing 3 and 3 -- my sister (MOH), his sister, my brother, his best friend (BM), plus one more friend each. I'm having trouble picking one though...

thats where the trouble comes in picking just one and not hurting anyones feelings!

bella_bride Posted: Aug 13, 2010 02:51 PM

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too many... don't know what I am going to do!

FutureMrsPena622 Posted: Aug 13, 2010 05:48 PM

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We are having 6 girls and 6 guys!
We are having 2 FG's and 2 RB's!

SeptemberBride2012 Posted: Aug 13, 2010 06:58 PM

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5 & 5....+ 2 = 12.

vickyp0o1215 Posted: Aug 13, 2010 07:01 PM

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2 MOH
6 BM
1 JR BM
1 FG

2 BM
6 GM
2 JR GM
1 RB

= 21 ppl =/

sjr385 Posted: Aug 13, 2010 07:17 PM

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ksugar44 Posted: Aug 15, 2010 11:26 AM

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I'm really torn about my BP. My FH has 7 groomsmen (his brother, 4 friends, and my 2 cousins). I figure I should have about the same. I have 4 def his two sisters and my 2 cousins. I really don't know what to do about friends ...i always figured my best friend from college but she didn't put me in hers, so can I still put her in mine? Then I'm wondering if some of my other college friends think I should ask them. I can feel the drama!

MrsHazel2B Posted: Aug 15, 2010 12:55 PM

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Posted by ksugar44

I'm really torn about my BP. My FH has 7 groomsmen (his brother, 4 friends, and my 2 cousins). I figure I should have about the same. I have 4 def his two sisters and my 2 cousins. I really don't know what to do about friends ...i always figured my best friend from college but she didn't put me in hers, so can I still put her in mine? Then I'm wondering if some of my other college friends think I should ask them. I can feel the drama!

So FH has his guys together...but you're still undecided about your girls? You don't have sisters, female cousins? I don't know about the BF, you weren't in hers but was it because she only used family? That happens.. It will only be drama if the people you pick won't feel close enough to you to care as much about your wedding as you do. That's the drama.

CrystalP81 Posted: Aug 16, 2010 04:12 PM

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1 MOH
3 BM
1 FG

1 BM
3 GM
1 RB

Trying to keep it small.

lynb1031 Posted: Aug 16, 2010 04:20 PM

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We have 3 girls and 4 guys. One of the guys is my 'Man of honor' so him and the Best man will escort one of the bridesmaids together to kind of even it out

MrsHazel2B Posted: Aug 16, 2010 08:50 PM

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I have two cousins who told people in my family that they want to be in the BP. If I include them, I would have 7 girls, then I'd have to have 7 guys. I really don't want to go that big. I don't know...I can feel the drama starting.