BP drama just starting

So one of my bridesmaids I had actually considered making them my MOH and I am sooo glad I didn't. At my birthday party last night all the girls came over. One by one I went through my plans with them.

I show them the dress I think we should get for them and my friend says she doesn't like the dress. Her reasoning is that it will show everything including her big butt and love handles. Mind you she is the skinniest girl in the BP. She knows she skinny but says that she still has some fat to show anyways. Her choice is to have empire waist dresses.

Then when I tell her about my wedding colors she gets angry saying that purple is her favorite color and that she was going to use turquoise as well because its her birth month. She started getting mad at me. This girl does not even have a BF so its not like she will be getting married anytime soon. Ugh!

Then she was mad about that I picked a DJ already. She was questioning me if I made a good choice because DJ's in long island don't play good music. ***! I assured her in my choice at the end.

Finally I asked if I should do an engagement party and she said yeah in Villa Barone Manor. That place is expensive! I wanted to do like a BBQ or something. Does she think I have money like that?

My two MOH's went to the kitchen and were like I see why Christina didn't pick her to be MOH!

I'm obviously going to have to put my foot down on this girl the whole way through. I don't care how overpowering her opinion is it is my wedding.

Thats crazy....i mean you'd expect her to have an opinion about maybe ONE of those things...but that many?! thats crazy talk!!
Besides, her opinion doesn't matter

Sorry you have to deal with that and you're right good thing she's not MOH!!

Wow! sounds like another edition of: I can't just be happy for my friend. This girl sounds like a HUGE buzz kill and certainly has NO right to be pissed about your colors and DJ choice.

Hang in there! I hope things get better or you may just have to slap her around a bit!

sorry you have to deal with this.

Sorry you have to deal. I totally understand that kind of bs though - it just comes w/ the territory of being the bride to listen to everyone's complaints apparently! Just be glad you went w/ your gut and DIDN'T choose her as a MOH and hopefully she'll get over herself and realize that your wedding is the one day it really is all about YOU! lol

OUCH!!!!!

Someone needs to put this girl in her place!

UGH! Sorry you are going through that. Why can't some people realize it's just not about THEM!

Wow that sucks! IM sorry to hear you are going threw that. Hopefully she will come to her sense soon. Maybe if you have a talk with her that everytime she puts down something about your wedding it hurts your feelings she will start thinking before she talks more.

My mom puts down an idea each time I tell her something and all I say is 'o well you have a year and half to get used to it or get over it'

dont let her upset you

Crashing

I am so sorry U are having this type of problems chica...

I had a BIG problem with the BP party too...
This is WHY i always ADVISE future brides to WAIT til dates get closer to do all of that....
My WHOLE Bridal Party is TOTALLY different from 2010 to 2011... Its a shame that my Engagement party bas ppl as 'Maid of honor' Best Man'.. and Now, they are Not in the BP...

I think what you need to do too is GO to the STORE with them and let them TRY on the dresses, PLUS they will BUY their dresses rit?
Why not Compromising on YOU choose the color and they choose the style? Not everyone fits into the same style chica.

This is what I did with my BM, I said 'I dont care what style you get, as long as its Royal Blue' and its so happen they both fell in love with the same dress.

You will see people's True Color in UR wedding...
We have ALL see them, ask the 2010/2011 Brides, We'll tell ya bout it....

Sorry u are having this problems chica but KEEP UR HEAD UP!
tranquila! Everything will be FIne..

and about ur Eparty, You know what I did and Spend around $1,000 with TONS of food and TONS of extra things! (photogrpaher/chef/decorations)
Just do waht YOU AND YOUR FIANCEE WANT... NOT what the BP wants....

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Posted by Bride in 2012

I'm sorry you're already having BP drama. Just be glad you didn't make her your MOH. I recently had a little drama with one of my BM's too - I made a thread on here but don't want to bump it up in case she finds this board. I still don't know how her and I left things off but I'll guess I'll figure out sooner or later.

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Just watch out...
watch the sings....
I did the same thing with my Xmoh.... We had tons of drama so I took her 'title' away...
then she came back sayigns she was sorry and dumb me took her back and THINGS ended up even MORE uglier than before...
Now, we no longer speak.
(A friend of 10yrs)