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BP Gifts Question

AwaitingAugust Posted:

BP Gifts Question

Does the entire bridal party get the same gift, or does everyone get something different, based on things that they like?

Does the MOH get the same gift as the BMs?

Do most people give DOJ to the BP as the gift, or do you give the jewelry in addition to something else.

sorry i'm so clueless
AdriandSteve Posted:

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I'm getting them DOJ in addition to 2-3 other things. I got them each the same thing. However some times are in different colors depending on the girl.

Lsorrent Posted:

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It's totally up to you what you want to do. I bought my girls mostly all of the same things, with a few differences:

Tote bag
Makeup brush kit w/ case (BM's only)
Lip gloss kit (BM's only)
Bath & Body kit (MOH's only)
Jewelry pouch
Totes Isotoners ballet slippers
Double picture frame with a pic of me with each BM on one side and the other side left blank for a wedding pic
Swarovski necklaces
Swarovski earrings for MOH's and FSIL to match their necklaces
Crystal brooch for their dress
Lolita wine glasses

Oh and they all also have the option to get a free mani/pedi, as my sister (MOH) is a manicurist.
halfbaked Posted:

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You don't have the get them all the same thing at all. I did but the one I got for my MOH is a little bigger/nicer than the others.

I didn't get them DOJ because I don't want them to feel obligated to wear it and match each other. Good luck!
JenBill61210 Posted:

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you don't have to get the same thing if you don't want. I got all my BM's DOJ but got my MOH a different piece which was more expensive

AngnShaun Posted:

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i got them all the same thing because it was cheaper to buy the things in bulk... except my MOH and Jr BM got something the other girls didnt

Tetelove Posted:

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I really thinks that it's up to you. I think it will be up to you to decide whether or not to get the same gifts for the girls. I personally plan on getting my bridesmaids the same gift but get my MOH(sister) and Matron of Honor(FSIL) something different,,
slyman1101 Posted:

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i think usually the moh either gets something a little different or a little extra.. im getting her an additional bracelet on top of the earrings and necklace and katespade wallet the rest of the bp is getting

Future Mrs P Posted:

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I got their DOJ, the MOHs earrings are a little bigger than the rest of the girls. And I am going to get them a few other small things.

mariedsgn Posted:

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I'm giving them all the same things - but I am going to get my MOHs an extra something special!

So far, I got the girls
Vera Bradley tote bag
Vera Bradley beach towels
Philosophy shower gel
Havaianas flip flops

I plan on getting some kind of earrings that they can wear the day of.
cleokizzy Posted:

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most give the same gifts for everyone to avoid fighting over each other (bm thinking the other got a 'better' gift).

i spent a good amount of $ for the DOJ for my bm's so that's my only gift.
Jna2010 Posted:

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you can get all the same or completely different or just variations of the same thing, its totally up to you! the only problem i find with maybe doing stuff different for each is that one may like someone elses better or whatevever and plus its more of a hassle trying to decide which one would like what better

same thing for the MOH you can get her something completely different or the same plus alittle extra

i got all the bm;s the same thing (with the exception of the junior bm's) and my MOH will be recieving some extra gifts as well

i think a lot of girls do give DOJ as the gift, im just not that into doing that unless theres more to the gift than just doj, the reason why is because i feel like it is a nice gift except it also benefits the bride which just doesnt sit with me well to just give that as a gift ya know

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