Ok So in my Bridal Party... I want to have two MOH... but I have this other friend who I also feel Close to... but I am not 100% if she can take the responsabilities of a MOH... So my question is: (and I apologize but I am so naive with this things!!!) Should I have 2 MOH & 1 BM? Or Should I just make them all of them MOH & have 3 MOH and NO BM?? Lol... u get me? I am so confuse!! Because I am really close to those 3 chicas! they are like my BFF... But I am not sure how the Bridal Party with Maid/Matron of Honor & Brides Maid work!!!!
{{I know you guys told me I can do what I want... But I dont know if it is ok to have 3 MOH!!! and NO Brides maid!!!!}}}
FutureJOC
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The only reason why I wouldn't have 2 MOHs and just 1 BM is because the 1 BM may feel kinda of 'left out' since the other two have the title of MOH and she's only a BM.
Really not sure what to do in this case. If you wanted to add one more person than having 2 MOHs and 2 BMs is fine. I think it might be weird to have 3 MOHs - maybe just don't give anyone a title and they are all BMs and explain to them that you just couldn't decide because they are all very close and special to you? It's a tough situation.
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Posted by FutureJOC
The only reason why I wouldn't have 2 MOHs and just 1 BM is because the 1 BM may feel kinda of 'left out' since the other two have the title of MOH and she's only a BM.
Really not sure what to do in this case. If you wanted to add one more person than having 2 MOHs and 2 BMs is fine. I think it might be weird to have 3 MOHs - maybe just don't give anyone a title and they are all BMs and explain to them that you just couldn't decide because they are all very close and special to you? It's a tough situation.
I dont know what to do!!! They dont know each other... but since we have been friends for a LONG time.. they already *know* they are my MOH... I have not give 100% tittle to them but... I dont know what to do =(
christine2010
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In my opinion, you have time, do not pick anyone yet. For a September 2011 wedding, you really can wait until January to make a final desicion.
VCanizalez
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Posted by christine2010
In my opinion, you have time, do not pick anyone yet. For a September 2011 wedding, you really can wait until January to make a final desicion.
I Know thanks... But my Eparty is coming and I want to 'have them' by that time... =(
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it's your wedding, so you can pick whoever you want. if you want 3 moh, then have 3 moh, if you want 2 moh and 1 bm, then do that. they will all love the fact that you want them in your bp that i'm sure they wouldn't care much for the title.
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Posted by jwleewedding
it's your wedding, so you can pick whoever you want. if you want 3 moh, then have 3 moh, if you want 2 moh and 1 bm, then do that. they will all love the fact that you want them in your bp that i'm sure they wouldn't care much for the title.
See at the same time I am thinking... in Spanish Everyone is called Maif Of Honor (Dama de Honor)... they all are Spanish so... i guess it wouldnt b a problem...
Thanks though!
NellieBellie32
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either would be fine especially bc they dont know eachother.....if they did then i would def say 3 moh so 1 doesnt feel left out
VCanizalez
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Posted by NellieBellie32
either would be fine especially bc they dont know eachother.....if they did then i would def say 3 moh so 1 doesnt feel left out
They dont know each other....
But Thanks! =)
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Posted by FutureJOC
The only reason why I wouldn't have 2 MOHs and just 1 BM is because the 1 BM may feel kinda of 'left out' since the other two have the title of MOH and she's only a BM.
Really not sure what to do in this case. If you wanted to add one more person than having 2 MOHs and 2 BMs is fine. I think it might be weird to have 3 MOHs - maybe just don't give anyone a title and they are all BMs and explain to them that you just couldn't decide because they are all very close and special to you? It's a tough situation.
ITA. I wouldn't have 1 BM. Either make them all MOHs or all BMs or ask someone else to be a second BM. You can tell them all they are in the wedding. Maybe just wait on labeling it.
VCanizalez
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Posted by FutureJOC
The only reason why I wouldn't have 2 MOHs and just 1 BM is because the 1 BM may feel kinda of 'left out' since the other two have the title of MOH and she's only a BM.
Really not sure what to do in this case. If you wanted to add one more person than having 2 MOHs and 2 BMs is fine. I think it might be weird to have 3 MOHs - maybe just don't give anyone a title and they are all BMs and explain to them that you just couldn't decide because they are all very close and special to you? It's a tough situation.
ITA. I wouldn't have 1 BM. Either make them all MOHs or all BMs or ask someone else to be a second BM. You can tell them all they are in the wedding. Maybe just wait on labeling it.
Ohh that is a GREAT IDEA... JUST telling them they are on the wedding but NOT LABELING THEM!!! =) I like da!
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i think having all 3 of them as moh is fine..bc u dont wanan hurt anyones feelings...but maybe telling htem they are in the party and not putting exact names on it is a good idea too so at least they know they are in the bridal party
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agreed. there's no reason they have to have titles. just make them your COURT! ha! cmon now I want credit for using a Latin term from a quinceanera!
VCanizalez
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agreed. there's no reason they have to have titles. just make them your COURT! ha! cmon now I want credit for using a Latin term from a quinceanera!
lol =) Great Thanks!
VCanizalez
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Posted by angelabarra12
i think having all 3 of them as moh is fine..bc u dont wanan hurt anyones feelings...but maybe telling htem they are in the party and not putting exact names on it is a good idea too so at least they know they are in the bridal party
