BP Question

Jamnike Posted: May 24, 2007 10:15 PM

BP Question

So my FH has 3 sisters, the oldest one is married, and she added a spot for me in her wedding about 4 months before the wedding so I wouldnt feel left out (mind you Jon and I were only dating for about 5 months at the time) One of his other sisters is engaged and when we lived in NY we spent TONS of time with her and her fiance. Im pretty sure that we are gonna be in their wedding ( they are having a long engagment) and his younger sister is 18 so, shes planning a wedding anytime soon.

I have 2 friends that live on LI still that I have been friends with since HS. We dont talk EVERY day but everyime i come home we always get together and catch up and talk online and stuff. We really dont have any other super close friends that I could see being in the BP but im not sure.

Think its ok to have mostly ppl related to my FH as BMs then friends of mine, or should I ask other friends?

megzzie Posted: May 24, 2007 10:19 PM

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Don't ask people just to have the same amount that are connected to you as are connected to your FH in your BP (does this make sense? lol I hope it does). You have to ask whoever you want and whoever you are closest with. It doesn't matter if most of your BMs happen to be related to FH - that's who you're closest with.

Jamnike Posted: May 24, 2007 10:21 PM

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I just didnt know if they would feel weird ya know? i mean i wouldnt cuz we are going to be related but i dont have any sisters or brothers so i have no idea lol

megzzie Posted: May 24, 2007 10:23 PM

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They shouldn't feel weird. All of the groomsmen in our BP are related to FH except for my brother and my nephew (the RB). Those are the guys that FH wants because that's who he feels close with.

Good luck with picking your BP!