BP seating

angel1219eyez Posted: May 18, 2009 03:21 PM

BP seating

so i was thinking about what i am going to do for our BP tables... a good amount of ppl in our bridal party are bringing their gf or bf who are not in our BP...now do you girls think its wrong if we sit our BP at tables near FH and I without their dates or do you think the BP should sit with their dates?

Juhgail Posted: May 18, 2009 03:22 PM

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I am having the BP sit with their dates!

laulac98 Posted: May 18, 2009 03:23 PM

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I'm definitely seating mine with their dates. A few years ago FH and I had 4 weddings in 1 year that either one of us were in and we always sat together.

Lsorrent Posted: May 18, 2009 03:23 PM

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They should definitely sit with their dates. Why bother inviting them with a date if they don't sit together then? I was in my best friend's BP a few years ago, FH was not. But we sat together at a table with a few other BM's and their dates.

MarjorieFrank Posted: May 18, 2009 03:24 PM

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Def seating them with their dates. I don't know how many of each you have but you can have the BMs and their dates on one table and the GMs and their dates at another table.

jlt2010 Posted: May 18, 2009 03:24 PM

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I would definitely be seating everyone in our BP with their dates...

T E R I Posted: May 18, 2009 03:25 PM

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They will be sitting with their dates

2010 Fall Bride Posted: May 18, 2009 03:25 PM

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I would let them sit with their dates, sometimes their date won't know anyone at the wedding so they will be bored if they have to sit at a table of ppl they don't know!

MrsC2010 Posted: May 18, 2009 03:28 PM

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i def think they should be able to sit with their dates....

i was a bm for my friends wedding. fh and i traveled 3 hrs to go to the wedding and we were seated separately....bc of all the stuff going on with the ceremony, pictures, etc and then dinner...i didn't get to hang out with him at all til much later in the night...luckily he is friends with all my friends so he was ok but if he didnt know anyone that woulda been really ackward to spend the whole day by himself

NanandEric08 Posted: May 18, 2009 03:30 PM

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Def seat them with their dates. I would hate it if FH was in a wedding party and I wasnt and I had to sit alone.

AdriandSteve Posted: May 18, 2009 03:32 PM

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Posted by Juhgail

I am having the BP sit with their dates!

me too. Esp since most of them will be married to one another by that time.

bulldoglover Posted: May 18, 2009 03:35 PM

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i'm seating with their dates and friends. worried they'd be uncomfortable otherwise~*

jussie82 Posted: May 18, 2009 04:21 PM

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Seat them with their dates...at my mohs wedding fh was not in the bp and she did not seat us with our dates...he also did not know many people outside the bp. He is outgoing so it was fine but it would have been more fun if I sat with him

Dean Bean Posted: May 18, 2009 04:28 PM

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I think they should def sit with their bf/gf's. Don't feel pressured to keep your bridal party together. I've been to a few weddings now where they've been split up.

christine2010 Posted: May 18, 2009 04:31 PM

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definitely sit them with their dates. we are having the guys on one side of the room & the girls on the other.

JAAMS Posted: May 18, 2009 07:31 PM

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I would say DEF seat them with their dates. We are absolutely going to. I don't want their dates to feel uncomfortable by themselves, and I also absolutely DO NOT want to make it as though our table is so exclusive that people cannot even have their dates with them. Honestly, I think I would be very annoyed if I was not able to sit with FH at a wedding.

JMO though.

JillandJoe Posted: May 18, 2009 07:44 PM

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i think they should sit with their dates....i hate when i go to a wedding and I can't spend the evening with FH.... jmo, but you want them to enjoy the night too

panthern1 Posted: May 18, 2009 07:45 PM

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ITA with everyone else. Put them with their dates. I've been to a wedding where FH and I were both in the bridal party but we didn't sit with the others from the BP and that was totally cool.

Im not planning to have a BP table at all.