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BREAKING NEWS ME AND 'THE DATE' JUST UM 'BROKE UP'

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

BREAKING NEWS ME AND 'THE DATE' JUST UM 'BROKE UP'

so basically i just talked to him..and i guess u could say we broke up...which is kind of weird b/c we were never together in the first place...

basically i had left him a message that i wanted to talk to him..and just now when he called...we chatted for a bit, we r both sick so he was home...

and then i told him i wanted to basically put the cards on the table with what i m thinking lately about him..

i basically called him out on his inconsistency..and altho he was sick(he has a cold) i didnt realy care, i told him he started this 'relationship' so quick, he put in 110% effort, then he put in 5% and i just wanna know what is going on b/c at first i respected him for not being a game player and then he changed his 'tune'...

he rambled on about ******** but did apologize for being so wishy washy and thinks that he has to many personal problems and job related issues and 'his therapist' thinks we were moving too quick (***!) needless to say i was almost crying on the phone but i held my own, got his address so i can send him his dvds..and i told him not to sweat it b/c i had a great time and obviously he doesnt know me well enough to know i m not like all the other girls who have burned him in the past but he didnt give me enough time to show him that, he just assumed i would b like all the rest...oh and btw he had the NERVE to say to me that 'well i did call u so we could c each other saturday!!' and i was like um hello u dont call me for over aweek, u call me friday for saturday and i have plans and yet ur annoyed? ***!

so anyways this is definitly over, i m def. disappointed and i was kinda bitchy but stood my ground and i dont think he realized i was kinda hurt about it.. so i guess this story is offifially over...

oh but did i mention now i have 2 f'ing tickets to see jerry seinfeld in las vegas that we were supposed to do together and now no1 to go with,, and its on the credit card..should i m ake him pay for it still?

grrr...why does my life suck..lemme ask soemone that
brideinapril Posted:

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Aww, sweetie - your life doesn't suck - don't let this get you down.
He's a jerk!!!
don424 Posted:

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what a f****** a******!!!!!

LoriH Posted:

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what a smuck.... Does this mean we get to play the guess his name game?

Cheer Up! You are much better off that a jerk like that is gone for good.
MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

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oh yeaah good point, the game..hmm..so i assume its just the first name we can guess..lol..how should i set the game up?

don424 Posted:

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

oh yeaah good point, the game..hmm..so i assume its just the first name we can guess..lol..how should i set the game up?



give everybody 5 guesses
FeliciaDA Posted:

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Well I'm sorry it ended this way. But he is truly an a$$hole and you are better off that the door is finally CLOSED on this situation.

I mean, what crap he just fed you on the phone. 'Talked to my therpaist about you and she said we were moving too fast???'

Ugh I would strangle him if he were standing right in front of me !!

Michi, just look to the future and forget him. You deserve better. Focus on the positive things (like what happened with the NEW date this past weekend).

Be glad this happened NOW, rather than further into things...when you REALLY would have been emotionally hurt. I know it hurts a bit now, but just cut your losses and just try to remember that it isn't YOU at fault -- its HIM

Love ya

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

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thanks all i knew u guys would help me feel better
don424 Posted:

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can i kick his a**?

FeliciaDA Posted:

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Posted by don424


Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

oh yeaah good point, the game..hmm..so i assume its just the first name we can guess..lol..how should i set the game up?



give everybody 5 guesses



Yes, really .. let's play the name game No more 'the date' for this guy!!!
2003OCT10 Posted:

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Maybe you could ask 'the NEW date??'

Seems like the two of you really clicked... Just a suggestion...

Hang in there.. It will get better!
StepherG Posted:

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I'm confused. Was this the 'new date' that went so well? I liked that story...

Or was this an old 'the date'???

MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

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don ur more then welcome too...mayeb u can play fedex and return the dvds, and oops kick his butt for me

Kriss2c Posted:

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I'm sorry he did that to you.
don424 Posted:

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Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

don ur more then welcome too...mayeb u can play fedex and return the dvds, and oops kick his butt for me



what dvd's are they, if they're good give them to me -- to hell with returning them

it pisses me off because when a guy does this, it makes the rest of us look bad

i mean if i'm going to be an a** (which i am sometimes), i at least want to create my own image and now have some idiot create it for me
MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

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Posted by don424


Posted by MuchInLuvMichi

don ur more then welcome too...mayeb u can play fedex and return the dvds, and oops kick his butt for me



what dvd's are they, if they're good give them to me -- to hell with returning them

it pisses me off because when a guy does this, it makes the rest of us look bad

i mean if i'm going to be an a** (which i am sometimes), i at least want to create my own image and now have some idiot create it for me



LOL!! i know pulp fiction is one of them...i gotta see what the others r ..loli dont even wanna keep them i wanna break um and send them back but bad karma lol
MuchInLuvMichi Posted:

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clarify for newbies


the good story of today was anew guy

'the date' we r referring to who we just um broke up was someone i had also been seeing for the last 2 monthes on and off
MOBLaurel Posted:

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Mom hugs for Michi

lilmrs Posted:

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You sure you don't want to post his name or a picture now? He does not deserve you and I am happy that you will be moving on. He is not worth your time and energy..chin up and move on to the next happy and exciting adventure in your life.

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